Why Children as Adults End Up totally Disliking their Parents

Why People End-Up totally Disliking their Parents - Text

What is more interesting, is that all the Abuse that happens to Children comes from Parents when they have overfed their System - they require new Energy. How do they do it? They take the Child and use anger or sexual-abuse or violence to access the Childs Energy, so they make an insertion into the Child, take part of the Childs Energy for themselves, swap their used-bullshit for the Child, now the Child is fucked for life, trying to work out their life because theyre having experiences that they dont even know where it comes from. Meantime its their Parents shit, because the Parents couldnt live...effectively. But I mean, all Children is affected by that.
Every time you use violence without knowing what the fuck you are doing, every time you speak, you dont, you are not directing you Energy: You are actually taking shit, out of your Children so that you can feel better. Thats what happened to everyone. Thats why everybody ends-up, lets put it, most people end up, in a point where they totally dislike their Parents. They Hate them. Because they Remember that Abuse. But they cannot word it because it doesnt exist in your education-system, it doesnt exist in how anything is explained, how it works - so you dont know why you Hate your Parents. You just regard them as you just dont wanna be like them! But what invariably happens to you, when you have children? You do exactly the same thing.



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[souljagirlhotstuff]

how can u end up not treating ur children the same way?

[GianRobberts01]

@souljagirlhotstuff to start with, we have to change who we are as beings, we have to change ourselves to that which is best for all, to make the whole process easier and actually supportive for all equally we must change the current money system in this world to an equal money system, and then everything will change. all feras and survival will be taken away and we can focus on ourselves and change, but still we who can hear this must already stand up and change for that which is best for all.

[HESEPHOLIS1]

but we are the media.

blame game very fascinating.

[GianRobberts01]

it simply is not blame, it is something to conciser.

as everyone has these experiences with in themselves and can simply not explain why they are so emotional, full of anger or sadness or any emotion that is just with in them, remember the same happens to everyone, the parents once were children and now they are parents and so the circle never ends, till one says stop till here no further and not allow yourself to be consumed by emotion, this is simply showing people how it is done. to stop

[GianRobberts01]

obviously stop. by applying yourself through self forgiveness and living it.

[IngridBloemheuvel]

@miegapelel Part 3 and other related video's are on my blog: innosentence.blogspot.com/2011­/07/practical-common-sense-for­-parents.html

[IngridBloemheuvel]

@miegapele On my channel there are 2 video's from the series The sins of the Mothers. I have to look up where the other parts are - but you can start with part 1 & 2

[miegapele]

Hi! Is there more? on the same subject. the other part of the interview or smth?

Thanks. Great support and common sense.

[princessmilagro]

@SpamAnn Yeah, I have asked them. They spew so much subjective bs out of their mouth, they can't give me a straight answer...nothing solid. I know I started to lose them when they started taking drugs. It just started with pot, then alcohol...totaling our only car with a semi on the highway, then onto bigger & better drugs like METH! Now, they are not the same people I raised & tell everyone what a horrible mother I was...and even LIE to ME ABOUT ME! Not everyone has a good reason!

[princessmilagro]

I'm not saying I was perfect. But all of these people who have kids that have gone astray are not necessarily the culprit. If being a room mother to 3 rooms EVERY year, going on EVERY field trip, bringing 90 cupcakes & treats to every birthday & holiday, attending every program, being lunch & recess aide to be near them, taking them to church, & some years putting them in private school, & living, breathing, & making every decision based on them is a bad mother...then I AM ONE!

[princessmilagro]

I'm not saying I was perfect. But all of these people who have kids that have gone astray are not necessarily the culprit. If being a room mother to 3 rooms EVERY year, going on EVERY field trip, bringing 90 cupcakes & treats to every birthday & holiday, attending every program, being lunch & recess aide to be near them, taking them to church, & some years putting them in private school, & living, breathing, & making every decision based on them is a bad mother...then I AM ONE!

[princessmilagro]

So many times I hear people spewing subjective poison as a reason to pick apart their parents. I've been the object of abuse, there is nothing subjective about it! There is nothing subjective about the abuse wheel, either. You can look it up on the Internet. I LOVED my children, for whatever reason, MORE than I love my next breath! I did my VERY BEST with the tools & the life I was given. How is that wrong? How did my kids end up on drugs, alcohol, & specifically METH?!

[adriandrum]

@princessmilagro i also found that my mothers desire to be the perfect mother and worship her children was more based in her own wants, desires, insecurities and fears - the things she wanted and desired, and feared to lose and not have - it was never actually about me and the family, it was about what role we played in her life and the purpose we served

[adriandrum]

@princessmilagro i can share my perspective, being a son whose mother was like you. I resented what my mothers love for me was based on - that it was a kind of love that is conditional and exclusive to our relationship as mother-son - it was not based in equality - 2 beings living as equals. it was like her loving me was less about me and more about her being a mother and fitting an ideal by playing the role of a mother and trying to have a perfect, ideal family

[SpamAnn]

@princessmilagro did you ever ask them? I would ask them, without emotions in my tone I would simply ask them what the reason was. Your vision is biased if you think abused children show real loyalty and love. You have to track back your behavior, because being overprotective can be abusive as well. You have to be able to let your children do and leanr on their own as well and not control every aspect of their experience. Maybe you can write about this on the forum in more detail?