coping mechanisms:
-positive self talk: "I can handle this." "I can regain my power." "I have the right and the power to make the best choices for me." "This is just a feeling. This, too, shall pass." "I am good at (fill in the blank)." "I feel happiest when (fill in the blank)."
-deep breathing
-total muscle relaxation from head to toe (requires concentration)
-gabfest with a friend
-prayer/meditation/yoga
-massage
-jog
-cardio/weight training
-walk to clear your mind or sort your thoughts
-call a hotline
-join a support group
-creative outlets: dancing, art, playing a music instrument, listening to instrumental music, singing, journaling, photography, scrapbooking, daydreaming, talking to yourself (go somewhere quiet where no one will bother you)
-mental exercise: reading, crossword puzzles, jigsaw puzzles, learning a new activity, brain teasers, riddles, read jokes, sudoku, word search
-do something kind for someone else
-nap
http://www.survivingtothriving.org/triggers
tips from survivors:
http://www.hopeforhealing.org/tips
BUILDING SELF ESTEEM
http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/self/esteem/boost.html
http://www.twu.edu/O-SL/counseling/SH032.html
http://www.selfesteemawareness.com/self-confidence.htm
http://www.ivillage.com/health/mindbody/0,,908pqjxj,00.html
http://www.affirmations-for-success.com/boost-self-esteem.html
Rape/Sexual Assault:
Rape Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN)
Search for counseling centers by zip code.
website: www.rainn.org
National Sexual Assault Hotline
Free. Confidential. 24/7
telephone: 800-656-HOPE (800-656-4673)
Safe Horizon
website: www.safehorizon.org
telephone: 800-621-HOPE (800-621-4673)
Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Program (SAVI)-NY only
website: www.mssm.edu/SAVI
Joyful Heart Foundation
My non-profit dedicated to helping victims of sexual assault through dolphin-human therapy.
*Please note that this is not a crisis/counseling center, but it is a good source of information.
website: www.joyfulheartfoundation.org
National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC)
website: www.nsvrc.org
telephone: 877-739-3895
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD):
National Institute of Mental Health
website: www.nimh.nih.gov/HealthInformation/ptsdm...
The Rape Crisis Center
http://www.rapecrisis.com/
(210) 349-RAPE (7273)
People Against Rape
1-800-877-7252
does it really can report to police immediately when someone is being rape?!
yaayuen 7 months ago
is tht p!nk?!
Gilliangilgil 8 months ago
VICTIM? PLEASE SEE MY (BASW) GUIDELINES FOR DEALING WITH BULLIES IN GOOGLE HELP DISCUSSION "I AM BEING BULLIED FOR ASKING QUESTIONS..." AND HUMOROUS INSIGHT INTO ONE BULLY, VIDEO "RUSH LIMBAUGH AT THE PLAYGROUND"
wedgewood578 1 year ago
thumbs up
AfroJonez 1 year ago
@AfroJonez I don't get it...
ThreePockySticks 1 year ago
@AfroJonez how is rape ok? explain to me please i dont understand how ones mind could think like that?
Theblackbarbie698 1 year ago
rape is ok in my book
AfroJonez 1 year ago
Bludy hell thats a lot of raping also men get raped o.O didnt know that gay sex or straight?
TheTashiTaylor 2 years ago
Sorry I stand corrected, the video did mention male rape.
I think the general idea is that rape is wrong whoever does it and whoever is the victim.
Piercetp 2 years ago
Its interesting but lacks gender neutrality. Males can be raped or molested. This is especially true of children, mentally ill or gay men in abusive relationships. Its also common in prisons and jails.
Piercetp 2 years ago