My Social anxiety: Part 3

BONJOUR!!
=]

How is everyone today?
Well this video is just about having social anxiety and wanting to get a job, and how anxiety attacks SUCK! =]

Category:

People & Blogs

Tags:

• Social
• Anxiety

[Bisquack]

Just been watching a few of your videos. About the job thing. I had a panic attack on the way to a job interview and I ended up going to the hospital. I phoned the job place and told them I had to go to the hospital and could they reschedule my interview. I even got a doctors note. But they never called me back. So I'm still looking for a job. And now I am dreading the job interview.

[ninajade13]

@Bisquack oh im so sorry to hear that =/ my advice for anyone who has social anxiety or any anxiety really is to apply to a job where your one of many many people who work there. My first job was at lowes hardware store and i absolutely loved it because i was just a worker. i didn't have any major role in the store, if i was feeling nervous or anxious i could go sit in the restroom for a couple of minutes and calm down. I was just simply a needle in a hay stack. =]

[ninajade13]

@Bisquack maybe try looking up breathing techniques online to help slow your heart rate when you do feel a panic attack or any anxiety coming on.

[cwsouthport]

i was doing a search for social anxiety and found your videos, how is the therapy going and from an old guy, you have beautiful eyes, i hope this comment doesn't set off a panic attack.

[ninajade13]

@cwsouthport thank you so much, lol no that didnt give me a panic attack.

I stopped going to therapy my psychologist said i could keep going but i got to the point where i would go and have nothing to talk about because im getting to where i dont have panic attacks anymore..well not as severe as they were. lol so i dont go anymore.

[DropDeadCouture]

u had only half eyebrows in another vid, but now you do have full eyebrows.

[ninajade13]

haha really? thats odd it must have just appeared that way in the video, because i don't mess with my eyebrows.

unless someone secretly saved them while i was sleeping and they had grown back by this video x ]

[ParanoiaDestroyah]

I want a job, I've gotten as far as asking for an application from and I can't fill it out yet. I was actually going to get a job at the library I always went to, like four times a week. Unfortunately it collapsed in our big ugly earthquake. I don't know where to look now. I have done work experience which did require me to interact with people, it was at our sports stadium in the kitchen, I just fried shit for 6 hours, no interview necessary which was awesome.My biggest barrier is the interview

[stangin209]

hi you have social anxiety so do i i know how u feel and its nice to meet and c videos from other people like me it seems like no one knows what we go through on a day to day basis better yet hour to hour minute to minute basis because i know my anxiety is all the timmmmme :/

[Bisquack]

But I did work a job for a few days and I had to quit because I was short of breath, my heart was pounding, I was in pain, they wouldn't give any breaks or lunch, I bleed in my shoe from bad shoes. I felt like I was going to cry. I felt pressure in my chest. And I didn't know what was wrong with me at the time. I didn't know I had an anxiety problem. I thought it was smoking withdrawal. Thats just my experience. I hope I can get over it.

[shiynader977]

Hi Again My Friend , I have Social Anxiety and Depression , Graduated 2009 and till now i didn't get a job "not because my illness but because other reasons" anyway i've done an interview for a job a month ago and my fears were killing me and my heartbeat was arising but i did somehow well , anyway my illness "Depression , Social Anxiety " Varies with times , i.e sometimes it gets too high , sometimes it is so low.

i will give you advices later which will benefit you!

[Triad3Force]

that's good. Like they teach in Exposure Therapy, the first few minutes of a social situation are hard but as it wears off you feel better and start to see that you can survive it okay. Then each situation that first anxious part decreases till its hardly there at all.

[cwsouthport]

bye