I am Looking for a Husband - Again/ Feeling I should date outside of my Race

Relationship ended and shold I look outside of my race for my husband?

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• interracial dating
• interracial marriage
• black men
• black women

[MizzEboniePrincess]

there are tons of bm right here on youtube that are telling you what it takes to get them and bw are busy arguing against them instead of trying to work with them and understand what a womans role should be. single bw are pumping each other up for failure. your first line of action should be is to stop listening to the women and start listening to these men if they are who you claim to want.

[freckles2720]

@MizzEboniePrincess - I am not going to debate with you. I don't agree with the majority of your comments. And that's cool.

[thecreativelady]

Sorry to learn that it did not work out. You made the grown woman decision that it was not going to work out. We should never have to compromise fundamentals of a relationship just to be IN a relationship. You knew what you wanted and weren't afraid to make a choice. Good for you.

Keep the faith. Love is love no matter where you find it!

Peace.

[freckles2720]

@thecreativelady - I am so not sorry it did not work. He was a true hot mess. Thank goodness I recognized fast.

[imsatindoll]

what I mean by focusing on age is that we cant focus on what happened in your twenties because your not twenty anymore. what good does that do you now? to answer your question...I do think men prefer women who are feminin, look good, keep a good reputation, who are positive and fun loving, no drama, not condescening, not arrogant about their success, not total airheads lol, not overbearing, not timid about sex, not too much of a boring person, respectful of leadership, supportive, I can go on...

[imsatindoll]

I do hope I am making sense in what I am trying to say. whether you want a black man or white man...makes me no difference. you still have to locate the type of man you want and once you locate him he would still need to be attracted to you before you too can get to know each other, establish a relationship, fall in love, and get married. location and attraction are two factors that need to be addressed concerning finding your dream guy. but thats just my logic & opinion, im no expert or doc...

[ALIM2206]

I FEEL YOU--- I FEEL YOU ---- I FEEL YOU

[Beyoncebeyond]

Yaaay! Im not the only black girl with freckles!.

[Beyoncebeyond]

Yaaay! Im not the only black girl with freckles!.

<3

[isaacruffinjr]

Shalom, Freckles. I suggest you write down a list of what you want your husband to be in vivid detail leaving nothing. Of course, no man is ever going to fit the entire list unless your standards are really low. It's like the book of the Prophet Habbakkuk 2:2 "Write the vision down [on stone tablets] and make it plain so that a man may run with it". I pray angels on assignment on your behalf in JESUS' Name. Also, don't look for him; he will find you.

[jgoodlowe]

Yes. Start dating outside of your race and don't feel guilty about it. Love comes in all colors. Good luck!

[damones1]

Perhaps youre not marriage material. Marriage isnt for everyone. Stop worrying about it and jjust live your life.

[Defiant359]

Interesting video post..... Be at ease with yourself and the rest will follow. 8-)

A book that I would suggest to check out is "Moments of Grace" by Patrice Gaines.

She is a very grounded author and there are some insights that you speak of in her book. NOTE: This is not a selfhelp book but the story of her her journey as a Black Woman. I have read it 3 times or more and it has always given me some insight into my own Soul.

This is from a Black Man's perspective. Enjoy Peace & Life.

[podzillart]

sounds like a dilema.. hard these days.. too much outside cultural infiltration that counters our natures.. we cant get along with us mostly because we dont know who us is.. blackpeople caught in the european paradigm need to be exercised of the caucasian influences in order to regain a balance and refind ourselves.. blessings in your search.. try going to afrika for a while.. blackpower sis

[tiemac]

Hi freckles,

I hope your relationship status is working better now. You seem like a great person to be around. Question: dating outside of your race? If I may be so bold... what is your race? You look mixed to me... which means you have the best of both worlds. I, being a white man dating a black woman for 12 years and very happy would hope that you find the person who makes you the happiest.

Cheers

[lisablisa]

I hope you choose to ignore the "your standards are too high comments" that's a load of bologna. Have you ever heard anyone say to a man that his standards are too high or to a non black woman? I haven't and I fail to understand this notion that BW shouldn't seek out the absolute best possible partner. My advice is to keep your mind and options open and seek out the best regardless of skin color. All the best to you