Polyamory: No, I'm not confused

I am SO sorry if this video drags on and is very dull. I was so tired, I watched the video and was like "wow, I talk really slow when I'm tired, and this drags on and on." So I cut out as many clips as I could to make it speedier and more interesting. I do apologize if its still unbearable.

Polyamory is a pretty awesome thing, and being polyamorous is no less acceptable than being monogamous. Unfortunately I've gotten a lot of really disappointing feedback from some of my subscribers on this matter, and I really felt like I finally had to open up the discussion.

ASK ME QUESTIONS if you don't understand! Try to understand and learn, don't be willfully ignorant! Be tolerant, be accepting, be respectful and compassionate! You are capable of these things and I know it, so don't you dare disappoint me!

Sweet luv in multiples,
Rem

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• polyamory
• monogamy
• relationship orientation
• confusion
• self discovery
• queer
• relationships
• love

[jaykarfumos]

lol.....wow just wow......it's funny when people think that creating a fancy word and definition for something can make it right.... blows my mind.

[paytotheorderofofof2]

@jaykarfumos Can you please explain what exactly is wrong about polyamory?

[CommandoVault]

In my day we used to call them 'sluts'. It doesn't matter what fancy label you try and put on it, simple fact is that you're slutting it with multiple partners simultaneously. There's always one girl like that in school/college/the work place etc and no one ever respects her.

[paytotheorderofofof2]

@CommandoVault I'm surprised somebody with such a low ability to understand new concepts managed to find their way to a computer and type out a message!

[StoicAtheist]

Such a great video. I've gone through the same struggles too. I have experienced great joy and satisfaction with living in a polyamorous relationship and also had the experience of having to closet that experience to pursue a monogamous relationship with someone I fell in love with only to be constantly slut-shamed even though I was loyal and faithful to that person. In the end I chose to be true to myself and I feel much better for it. I can relate to your story.

[bornbillsmith]

@bornbillsmith This is why society has these rules.

What dlo you think.

[bornbillsmith]

@bornbillsmith So you have people out there who won't know who their father is.

Eventually a man and a women who have the same father will have sex with each other and have a child.

Forget the morality of that it becomes a health issue and the same thing that applies to aids applies here to.

[bornbillsmith]

@bornbillsmith There are other issues as well.

You don't want to have children but say one of your partners has a child but because they have multiple partners they might not know who the father is.

Now lets say that this can happen with more then this person(people not knowing who their father is.)

[bornbillsmith]

@bornbillsmith How would you feel if one of your partners either from you or from someone else is a women who is pregnant and passes the Aids virus to the child.

tell me who is responsible to raise this child when the mother is dead.

Society.?

Why should they.

[bornbillsmith]

@bornbillsmith I assume you know this and even if the odds that you will be infected by one partner could be one in a million the more partners you have and the number of times you have it these numbers will eventually catch up with you.

How would you feel if you gave it to someone else.

[bornbillsmith]

I made a comment over two years ago and I think the last two years has just about proven I was correct but it's your life and while you make videos about it and ask people for their input it's still wrong to judger you.

Especially the way the world is if you have multiple sex partners and they have the same then eventually one of those partners will be someone with Aids and by the time you know it everyone you have sex with will have it and so will you.

Just look what happened in Africa.

[theawesomebeliever]

I believe it is great that people are bringing about this topic, it is our future as we shoud know better.

I wish, I really wish, that someday we can overcome outdated mindsets and embrace our fulfilment as individuals in a loving society.

[xJackieBabyyx]

I have a bit of a problem when it comes to jealousy how did you manage to control and get over it? Please answer or make a video that'd be great :) (and helpful!)