How to get over your lover.

HEY! I know, totally random of me. But I am going through a phase and well.. I wanted to help every girl that is going through
the same phase, " being dumped by someone you love " yes, harsh but true. Life doesn't always go the way you want to. As someone
I knew always said " Life is gay, time is gay " If you think of it in a deeper way, you will understand.
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If you are going through a normal break up, like if he fell out of love with you then he is a jerk and you should build a bridge
and get over it. And I have the exact materials you need to build that bridge. + Never stop yourself from crying, the more you cry
the emptier you become, and eventually you will reach a point where you think " Puh, he is sooo not worth it " cause he is A JERK

This song helps I guess :-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wddhvv41XMM
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Now for you other people with complicated break up cases like interference of the parents or something like that, then it is
going to be as twice as hard. Because in normal break up cases you know he doesn't care anymore. Like he threw you away, but in
these type case its different because you are both inlove with each other and you both want each other but can't be together.. and
well.. normal break up cases the guy is a JERK!! but in these cases.. he is not :( He is a sweet guy who had to let go
for the sake of his family, which only makes it harder to let go of him seing he is a modest guy. and it doesn't always have to
be family, it could be any reason that you two can't seem to control ( Fight's between the couple are not included in this )

This song will stop your feelings from being all messed up and lead you to a straight path :-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxK4Rh3NDC4
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The most difficult case... If your lover dies for instance then there really is nothing you can do, but just think. What would he have
wanted you to do? cry over him for the rest of your life or be happy?

Some music :-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-QCCz4mtd0E
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Some music you guys can give to your girls if you want them back :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RtHCAJkMF4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EcqQkbsn4w
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EcqQkbsn4w
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vw4_C2ArYT4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AgN-BSifdPI

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[XskittlezzXxx]

OMFG Im Goin Through The Same Thing Your Goin Threw He Was A Jerk AND It Was His Famliy XD Haha Ohhhh I Just Cant Win :/

[mewsheyz]

@XskittlezzXxx I don't understand why family has to interfere.. a jerk? how?

[XskittlezzXxx]

@mewsheyz Well People "Say" He Cheated On Me With Like 5 Girls But I Dont Know I've Known Him Forever And I've Never Known Him To Be Like That His Whole Famliy Has Never Known Him To Be Like That But His Mom Hates Me An Shes The Kinda Woman That Always Gets What She Wants An She Hates Me Sooo His Famliy Is Telling Me She Prob Made Him Break Up With Me Cause When He Called Me An Told Me It Was Over ....He Sounded Like He Was Crying And His Mom Was In The Back Fusing At Him Telling Him What To Say

[mewsheyz]

@XskittlezzXxx how old is he?

[claregaga]

me and my ex were that close we were best friends for 7 years growing up together then we went to different high schools and never spoke for 2 years we didn`t fall out we just never spoke and then we became close and went out for a while but then he left me for some girl who is prettty she isn`t a girly girl you know full of makeup but she is more a tom boya nd now he tells me he regrets her and calls her a man! he should have a good look at himself with his big ears :) i was forgeting him

[mewsheyz]

@claregaga I say don't give him a chance, there is a saying here that says " once a man hurts you bad, and you easily forgive, he'll hurt you again ".

[DerppADerpp]

Omg this is exactly how I feel..

[Neongreenturtles93]

im basically going through the same thing just.. the guy i thought i loved was my best friend and we've known eachother for 3 years and he was my brothers guitarist in his band.. but we got together and like me and him really loved eachother.. but my brother called me one night saying that he went to his house to pick him up and he was there with his ex and they we cuddling and kissing while watching tv.. and i found out.. it was their 3 year anniversary :/ and he use to say he hated her..

[fangsandwolves95]

we never dated but i was madly in love with him and i could tell he liked me too. but then the last few days he just stoped in a blink of an eye he stoped being the person i loved and i cant stop loving him but i no i have to and it feels so impossible im dying inside and i told him this but he said its just because im too sexy for u and nothing else i dont know what to do please help

[Sunnyrach]

awwwwwwwwwwww hahahha

[bickyandrehana33]

@Iceprincess314159

I have basically the exact same thing happen to me a few days ago and we were friends for a while before the 'love' stuff too. It hurt though. Since I had to let him go. He vowed to himself he would never leave me, hurt me. But I had to understand that you can't make someone truly love you forever like they did in the beginning. It's so difficult, and heavy on the heart, but we've all got a whole life ahead of us, and it may be hard, but just keep your head up, and you'll fi

[Iceprincess314159]

My bf just broke up with me at lunch. He said he didn't want to ruin our friendship (we have been buddies for years) we only dated for 5 months. I can't seem to be mad at him though. He did this awful thing kinda sweetly just saying we should see other people and that he just wanted us to be friends. I can't be mad at him or hurt if he really felt that way but I still am. Someone who went through this plz help!

[lolitsandrenaa]

PART 5: That's my story. :/

[lolitsandrenaa]

PART 4: The first day we hung out after we got back together was the day he realized he lost his feelings for me. It didn't strike him until later on in the day when he got home. And about 2 days later, he broke up with me.

I am devastated. I just can not believe he could lose his feelings for me so easily, and we were so perfect.. things were just about to fit perfectly again.

I can't get over him.

[lolitsandrenaa]

PART 3: So we took a break, and somehow without even knowing, he lost his feelings for me.

WITHOUT KNOWING. As in, he didn't know it himself either. So we got back together when we thought we could handle it again.

[lolitsandrenaa]

PART 2: Our first beak up was of several reasons. His parents disagreed with dating, he had a busy life and could not take care of his grades and me at the same time, we had a lot of arguments that were not normal, and I was too clingy- hung on to him.