Just Stop Looking!

So I've been getting a lot of questions from people regarding this topic of being alone and feeling like nobody is interested them, and it's quite apt to be talking about this during the Christmas period, as that is when a lot of people feel the most alone.

I hope I my advice can help you.

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[myzackfair01]

I love your videos lol and your voice as well

[JohnBirdMedia]

@myzackfair01 Thanks. :-] *Blushes*

[Russzart]

Hahaha, I was just wondering if you would make a video again!

People come to me for relationship advice, which is strange because the only long serious relationship I've had was when I was in the closet. But I think the advice you gave is great, only if people would follow through with it. I recently discovered I don't have time for a relationship, my live is too busy :-P Silly school, work, internet.

[JohnBirdMedia]

@Russzart That's how I'm feeling right now, me and my bf had a talk about it the other night lol!

Yeah 5EmptyClosets takes all my ideas, then Uni work, my actual weekend job. Leaves hardly any time for Personal Channel. :-[

But yeah! Thanks, I wrote this advice in the magazine I did a video for 'Out on Campus' so I thought I would further emphasise it. :-]

[adrian19831983]

Given that you put yourself out there, for people to look up to, I don't understand why you find it strange/hard/awkward that people ask you for help or advice. For some people including myself up 'til about two months ago the Internet is the only outlet for info and a way to come out of our shells and closets. And I do agree that going to any kind of group, even if you don't like the subject it deals with is better than being all alone. I personally took the leap of faith with a drama group

[JohnBirdMedia]

@adrian19831983 And all I meant, was that there's things I've never experienced, so for people to ask my advice on certain things - I'm a bit taken aback, appreciate it and everything, will just take me some thought :-]

[JollyGreen303]

FIRST.

[ZivXan]

Sometimes I wish I had your voice because finding people in america with a british accent would be so much easier :P lol

In all seriousness, I've given up looking last year... So let's see if me just doing what I like and being me works out. I'll let you know :)

[MrMusiclover41]

You have an honest face! Who wouldn't trust you? I would ask for your advice. I agree with what you said in your video. Good advice is to just be yourself! Be the friend you would want in someone else! I enjoyed your video. I wish you a merry Christmas. I hope Santa brings you something (or someone) nice! Cheers!

[TopCityPrince]

I'm in this phase right now. It doesn't feel good.

[Russzart]

@JohnBirdMedia Your part of a collab channel? I didn't know that :-P