Nice Guys Finish Last? Not with me!

Making clearer one of those annoying questions many of us have wondered.
Of course as always there are exceptions to this, but I find it tends to be more typical than not.
Love always MaryAnne

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[UFACIL]

@kipkayify No, there are good guys, and there are nice guys.

[kipkayify]

@milknhoneydollbaby Indeed. The nice guy myth was created by insecure men who want to feel morally superior to women they supposedly care for and their men. I'M the nice guy! I'm right! Blah, blah,blah. This comes off as weak, insecure, and bitter. It's alright to sound weak, insecure, and bitter, but it is certainly NOT what women look for in men - so don't get angry when she doesn't choose you. They simply don't want to admit that they did something wrong, and thus, the nice guy myth was born.

[ManedLioness]

@kipkayify When men sell themselves as being so "nice," "wonderful," and "awesome," and then turn around and blame women for the abuse they go through, it kinda forces me to put my thinking cap on, step back and wonder...

If a man who calls himself nice comes off very critical, blaming, judgmental...I'd think he's really giving away clues about himself. I doubt that truly nice men would even HAVE to advertise themselves as such great amazing men. They leave it to others to decide.

[kipkayify]

@rgchrono Humans by nature are attracted to beautiful things. Men often say that they would never court an ugly woman. That's not a bad thing - women do the same. So, yes, most people (and women are people) are attracted to people who are educated and take care of themselves. Nobody wants a fat, dumb person to share their life with.

That being said, I knew a family friend who I haven't seen in years. I did my makeup, lost a bit of weight, and poof, he liked me. It's natural. Humans are shallow.

[kipkayify]

@Kinjamaimai Well, if you just want sex then that's quite fine. After all, it's really just a one night, temporary thing. What woman doesn't want a confident man for a one night stand?

Women go for those guys because they are confident. The same reason guys go for slutty bitches - they are crappy people, but confident. And nothing is sexier than confidence.

It sucks, but as they say - Don't hate the player, hate the game.

[Kinjamaimai]

@kipkayify Actually the main problem is that most Nice Guys (I was one of them) are really just wimps. We were raised to expect the girl to take the first step. That's why we just sit and chat all night with them and then get confused when they lose interest.

That being said: Girls overwhelmingly go for the arrogant, selfish, machiavellian pricks. They go to the Nice Guy when they look for marriage. Well I realized I didn't want marriage, just sex, so I turned mean. It worked.

[ARTISTofPORTRAIT]

thanks for this video, i wish more women were like you.

[PProudToBeInsane]

@GrowingUpSortOf Worddd man