Addressing the misogyny towards Amber Lupton

Before I upload more videos on our work, there is something I have to call out.

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[SoulSearcher247365]

@johnman1911 This too is true. So, if a woman gets angry because we point out somewhere she is unnecessarily suffering, oh well. If she doesn't have enough self-confidence, self-respect, etc to not feel threatened by other people's assessment of her, she's probably not "high quality." Both ways are passive, because they're not dealing with the route of the problem. We can make it known that what was said was rude, etc, without letting it get to us and affect our mood. Males and females.

[DurexDurpaneu2]

@johnman1911 there is no barrier. It's just bullshit lies that have been spoon fed to us by movies bad parenting and our immature friends. Like I said take a look at steve p and hypnotica in order to see real men at work. Solid men with a gold heart and balls ov steel.

[DurexDurpaneu2]

@johnman1911 watch some videos from Steve P and Hypnotica. They explain the masculine to the max. Their seminars are pure gold. It will shed a lot ov light on the subject. We have feeling and emotions not only goals. Yes a man should have a sense ov direction but through out years ov fucked up mentality about what it is to be a man, forced us to hide our feeling and suppress them. When in fact it's the opposite. You need to show them but with the inner structure ov a real man ;). There is no ba

[johnman1911]

@DurexDurpaneu2 When men talk we do it with a goal in mind. I think that what Amber is saying is that it is hard for women to be reasonable and stay feminine. Women talk about their feelings often, the thing that men want them to do is get to the point and that is hard on them. I believe women are much more in touch with their feelings and talk about them much easier and faster than men. Men are expected by men and women to have a goal and accomplish it.

[johnman1911]

@DurexDurpaneu2 I agree with all that you said. I think men have a harder time putting their feelings in to words than women do. I think as men we try and divorce ourselves from our feelings and deal with facts and figures in order to get something done. As men we are more judged on what we can accomplish. Women spend a lot of time putting their feelings into words. Women talk more than men. And when women talk they will stay on a subject and beat it to death.

[DurexDurpaneu2]

"I don't know, my gut feeling told me so" etc etc.

So by understanding emotional intelligence, being in tune with our emotions and feelings, we can understand better WTF is going on with her and ourselves.

And like she mentioned before : it's hard for women to put what they feel into words. And the vid your refer to is a clear example ov that. She had a hard time explaining it like I did.

[DurexDurpaneu2]

Ok. This is my perspective:

Men and women are people. We should have equal rights & laws should be gender free. If you fuck up, you must face the consequences.

Now what she said by saying "you need to feel her" translates into : you need to be aware ov her emotions. Men and women have this thing called :emotional intelligence(look that up).

And us men have a hard time with that for we work on rational,value based, logic. When women's logic is almost entirely based on that. "I felt like it" "I d

[johnman1911]

@SoulSearcher247365 I agree, That is why I think that "On being a man" may want to address that issue. Not just him but others that teach these subjects seem to leave out that society is very accepting of female negative behaviors. That we don't realize how detrimental the behaviors are. We should also realize when men's anger about this behavior spills over that it is not just simple to label it misogyny, say the men need to man up and call it a day.

[johnman1911]

@SoulSearcher247365 Well yes I agree again. Human's want to be valued for what they do right and do not want to be devalued for what they do wrong. It is not gender specific. What happens is that women get very angry if when speaking of generalities we say something critical of them. Where very often if women say something critical of men we passively accept it. Let's just say in general I have seen men passively accept this type of criticism mush more than females.

[SoulSearcher247365]

@johnman1911 In my opinion, we're not being "man enough" if we are always trying to protect her or cover up for her or accepting her negative behaviors. "People are People." No, we can't "treat her like a man," but we can treat her like a human being. So the more fundamental question is, "how do we treat others?" We may need to clarify the things that we do and do not control or should and should not control. We can try to save other people til blue in the face, but it is ALWAYS up to them