To The Bullies (featured in the IT GETS BETTER book)

My contribution to the It Gets Better Project, as featured in the IT GETS BETTER book (on page 220)

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[Sichaye]

You are so right! In middle there was a girl who didn't like me, I guess because I am smarter. She told all kinds of nasty lies about me to the other girls in class, and all those girls ignored me for about a year. I thought no one would ever like me and everyone would hate me forever. But, I met my boyfriend, who loves mathematics just like me and he got picked on just like me. We gave eachother confidence, and now, almost 3 years later, nobody is picking on us anymore. Things will get better!

[TabloidJunk]

@Sichaye That's so fantastic! Thanks so much for telling me your story, you really made my day actually.

It's so nice that you and your boyfriend found each other and reminded each other how great you are. I LOVE love.

Have an awesome day :-)

TJ

[awesomestar51x]

This was amazing.

I was bullied REALLY bad in middle school (I'm in high school now.) and I even though of suicide and such things, I'm SO glad I kept pushing through now. I'm in high school, so I'm not living out my dreams and I'm stuck living in my town, but I have strong hopes and dreams for the future. Everything you said in this video is true. It does get better, and you are SO, SO much better than the bullies--they're just insecure! Honestly!

Thank you for confronting this issue :)

[TabloidJunk]

@awesomestar51x School is full of assholes who will never go anywhere, and it sucks that we have to spend those few years ion their company, but soon enough, we are free of them... But they are stuck with themselves forever.

Thanks so much for watching and leaving this great comment... sorry for the late reply. :)

Peace & Love.

TJ

[CBJAMPA]

Love your vid! Enough with the politically-correct-non-effect­ive ways of solving serious issues like bullying. By exposing what bullies are actually made of (sheer caca), you may have just well shed a little light on some kid out there who's desperate and doesn't know just what to do to stop a bully.

Greetings form Brazil!

Congrats!

[TabloidJunk]

@CBJAMPA Thanks so much..

Yes, we can sit around and try and internalize our anger.. but sometimes that just won't do.. Sometimes we want to stand on a roof top and scream FUCK YOU at the assholes trying to bring us down.

Thanks for watching :)

[FOBsellout]

I just wanted to say that this helped me a lot. I'm not gay but I've always been fairly obese. And as most people know it's been the cause of many a joke and that kind of stuff. I know it's really not the same thing but this really helped me as a person. I am just coming out of my high school life and I'm starting to realize that it does get better somewhat. Again I know this whole thing is about being openly gay, but... It helped a fat man in a depressed time. Just thought you should know. :]

[LittleGothick]

->>>> from my early age, I just didnt know how to put it in a sentence with certain words. I did what you did with facebook. Yes they are losers. And they deserve is AS YOU SO RIGHT EXPRESSED: we need the assholes and the bullies so WE CAN SHINE.

Thank you for this video, it's a great example that yes: it gets better.

Peace out!

[LittleGothick]

I ve been bullied because I am diffirent in many ways. Kids at school would love me or hate me and the haters were always more. I am a lesbian, I am a goth, I am a crossdresser, I am DIFFIRENT and that hurt them so much so they thought that I am the sheep that needs guidance to get back in the crowd, because I was TOO outside of this crowd for them to handle. After 10 years and more (I am now almost 27), I see that I was the leader, a threat for their miserable lives and I knew who I was, ->>>

[KIAxGamingChannel]

Dear bullies,

See that boy you made fun of for reading a book? Last night his best friend committed suicide.

See that girl you called fat? She is starving herself.

See that old man you just made fun of cause of the ugly scars? He fought for our country.

See that young boy you made fun of for crying? His mother is dying.

Repost this if you are against bullying. I bet 95% of you won't.

Your life is probably not as harsh as theirs.

If it is... definitely repost :) help them out.

[RetroDanceFreak96]

i'm not gay. however i am bullied. i am a very creative person and a bit of a nerd. the things i am most proud of about myself are my uniqueness and my acceptance of people who are different. ironically, these are the things that i, and many other teens are condemned for. it is the tragic stories of people lost to this bullying that keep me strong. i am determined not to make the mistake they did. R.I.P.

[TheJwar23]

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[paaige27]

Wow! you always have all the right thing to saay! loove you. :) <3

[blacky70]

i guess most of the time these type of homophobic behaviours stem off people that are unsure of their own sexuality. Great video!! I will be showing my students this if I catch any homophobic bullies!

[kuabci]

"Nobody's born homophobic, nobody's born racist."

That's right. And nobody's born gay either. Just so we're clear on that.

A lot of straight kids are bullied too. In fact, you're bullying all those old schoolmates in this video who for all your know have been trying to live fully and happy lives since their youth. Bullies? Haters? Look in the mirror. Or watch this video. (You know you love to look at yourself.) Hypocrite.

[greenphys]

if your gay, your oging to get picked on, if your fat your going to get picked on, if your different in any way you are going to get picked on its just the way it is. This guy totally contradicts himself! 1) calling the bullies that bullied you fucking loosers, thats bullying, 2) if no one is born homophobic then how can you use the excuse "i was born gay" Im not gay, Im not homophobic if u want to be gay be gay, but you have to expect to be bullied!

[ooberdyke0831]

Couldnt find better words to say to all those loser bullies!