Dating a Nice Guy You Don't Really Like?

Are you dating a nice guy, but not in love with him? Laura Love of http://www.love-quotes-and-quotations.com offers her advice.

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[SarcasticBlasphemer]

Good advice for women, great advice for men. Nice job laura.

[LauraLuvv]

Thanks, I appreciate your input.

[LauraLuvv]

You make some big assumptions and you still don't get it. I don't know why you think "satisfying your soul" has anything to do with being with a psychopath. No woman in her right mind would want to have a relationship with a psychopath!

What I was referring to were things like sharing common interests, having compatible goals in life, encouraging each other's passions and strengths. Kindness and respect are necessary components in a good relationship, but niceness by itself is not enough.

[jaydenfre]

This is a huge myth i can easily prove wrong.Go out on a bunch of first dates and be a total jerk,see how many second dates you get.I gaurantee every girl would say "i'm not going out with him again, he's a jerk!!".even the jerks know this so they suck up until you have made some commitments and feel you have too much invested to leave before they reveal themselves.If people wanted to be with a jerk why would the divorce rates be so high? divorce court is not filled with nice people.

[LauraLuvv]

You guys don't get it. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being nice. This video was done for women who are staying in a relationship with someone just because that person is nice, rather than finding the person who truly satisfies their soul. This same information could be given to men.

Women do like nice guys, but they don't fall in love with guys just because they're nice ... there has to be something more ... like a deeply satisfying connection.

[Yankeezcap]

if you are a nice guy there are only two options, turn bad or kill yourself. period.

[LauraLuvv]

Aw ... that's not true and not what I meant to imply. It's a wonderful thing to be in a relationship with a guy who treats you right. I'll have to make a video that addresses this for all those great, nice guys out there. Thanks for the assignment. :)

[javawhz]

Many women these days are waiting for that Prince charming guy to be exciting, romantic, charming, sensitive, funny, secure, handsome, mysterious etc.

If women expect these things from men then they should offer the same as well, yet I constantly come across women just holding out for that man yet they have nothing to offer in return but their boring existence!!

The bottom line...expect ONLY as much as you have to offer! If you are boring don't expect someone to transform your life!

[jaydenfre]

So if nice isn't the defining difference then why have it in the title? Satisfying your soul sounds like your saying you need to be in a relationship with a bad boy (psychopath) and put an element of the danger in getting your ass whipped on a daily basis.That's not Love either, that just gives people the wrong idea about what love is.I say, if your in a relationship with a guy that treats you with kindness and respect.Why don't you tell them how to make that relationship more interesting.

[randommagnum]

It should say something when the video starts out talking about a nice guy, in the context of being a bad thing.

To summarize...

1). Niceness doesn't equal love (getting jerked around does)

2). You're stringing him along (he'll be better off whacking it)

3). Discover what you really want (a guy who will treat you like shit...seriously, being abused by a guy who thinks he owns the world will indeed float your boat)

[menelikmen]

Nice guys always end up last.

[HateGrind]

Advice to nice guys stop being nice . When you stop caring about women your neediness goes , your insecurities go. women hate over protective,paranoid guys and clingy guys although this is completely primal.Any guy who says he is happy with there girl hanging with other guys is a lair plain and simple . Modern relationships are nothing more than an act . that's why people are so messed up these days. Most guys learn this lesson after a couple of broken hearts!

[misfits2012]

your all wrong! it's not about if love,

or attraction, money, being nice, or LACK OF communication or having a excellent sex life!

WOMEN CAN NEVER BE SATISFIED!...FROM ANYTHING!!

they want there house painted 100,000 diffent times afterward they want the orginal color!

THANKS feminsm and the sexual revolution

[AceroySangre]

BE THE BIGGEST ASSHOLE. PERIOD!

[e5d4c3]

take a fucking look at yourself chris. it could be love. your just way to selfish. u will probably love someone who doesent love u

[TimpBizkit]

The missing element is actually ATTRACTION not 'love.' The woman may love the guy and care about him, but he doesn't give her the feelings (possibly because he isn't exciting and challenging enough)

[superkal2006]

kill the bad boys. burn them alive. gut the bad boys. castrate the bad boys. cut the bad boys' throat in the middle of the night, he wont argue the bravado of this, all he will do is gurgle on his own blood and die.