How to be more talkative; Have a better social life

Do you run out of things to say? Don't know how to initiate a conversation? Wish you were the life of the party? It's easy to become more social with just one piece of advice:



---Marie Dubuque, CLC "Practical Advice for Everyday Life"

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[mariedubuque]

ChristopherAngelies--I am a life-relationship coach. Thank you for watching my videos!

[daJodge]

This doesn't really address the problem, however ( I can say this from experience). In order to be a good listener, you occasionally need to interject with poignant comments and be able to carry your load of the conversation, even if it is smaller than the other person's; otherwise it turns into an interview. Non-talkative people have difficulty doing this, and by focusing on listening (which they always do) it puts them in the wrong frame-of-mind for being an interesting person to talk to.

[bg11215]

That's my problem sometimes, people just open up and tell me all kinds of s**t that I don't wanna know! I guess I look sympathetic or something. It's amazing how all you have to do is look even halfway interested and some people will keep blabbering on and on and on, long after you've tuned out of the conversation.

[SCANDAL128]

i don't like being quiet and i am really trying to over come my fear of social aniexty but i dont want to change i just want to be myself

[xoxomeli1]

I can't keep convos going lol

[keke555788]

@u8myshorts20 i feel your pain

[dazeguy513]

@MrKirbinio LOL HELL NA YOU FUNNY

[u8myshorts20]

It is kind of ashamed that I cannot even talk to some of my family members.

[u8myshorts20]

If I can find people I can open,relate, and have something in common, then I don't mind talking more.

[MrKirbinio]

lol wtf is this bullshit

[XXXternityXXXX]

i m good at listening to people's problem...but i m not talkative...i dont even talk to my high school friends that much, there is only two people i talk to . well..two is enough

[pinkxvenom]

I've tried this, but most people see right through it and are like: "You're not really telling me anything, you're just leading me along".

It's so annoying to be so quiet ;-;

[warsilver99]

I'm a good listener, I just have to get to the point where I'm listening to someone... that's the hard part for me...