Men Fall Out Of Love 46 Months After Meeting A Woman

This video describes how and when men fall into and out of love.
The video is based on the book The Origin of Emotions by Mark Devon which can be downloaded at: www.theoriginofemotions.com

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• love
• romance
• men in love
• biology
• evolution
• evolutionary psychology
• falling in love
• love you
• marriage
• engagement

[weatherbellygirl]

And one more thing... If a man falls in love with a woman and then is separated from her d

[AnotherMarkDevon]

@weatherbellygirl

I do not think that a man's love is paused if he is separated from the woman he loves before the four year mark. I believe the clock keeps ticking and his love expires after four years even if he is separated.

[weatherbellygirl]

I want to ask something else as well. Who is more likely to forgive their partner for infidelity, a man or a woman? Also does a woman feel affection for man as well? Because I am involved with a guy who I have been with for two years and I have been friends with on and off since I was thirteen. I feel very strongly for him and he for me.

[AnotherMarkDevon]

@weatherbellygirl

Women are more likely to forgive a man for infidelity. Only men in love feel jealousy.

Yes, women feel affection for men. The longer you have known someone, the stronger the affection they trigger in you. The guy you have known since you were 13 will trigger strong affection in you - almost as much as your family does.

Regarding high social status, I think that if you met Brad Pitt, he would trigger much stronger infatuation than previous relationships.

[ayviamelody]

AnotherMarkDevon is a right!!! :) Being in love and affection are different!

[AnotherMarkDevon]

@ayviamelody

Thank you ayviamelody for the support.

[ayviamelody]

I'm a woman and this is so TRUE! xD men that say its not really don't know what being in love is that's why. They just think they're in love or want to say they are so they can just look good with their ego. Love is different from affection!! pay attention people.. he didn't say the guy would be unhappy or divorce after 46 months, but he said it's not love they're feeling when they start getting lazy to do nice things, its affection knowing she's there with him physically.

[AnotherMarkDevon]

@laketrash1987

The truth is that is 50% of marriages end in divorce and divorce peaks 4 years after marriage.

[AnotherMarkDevon]

@weatherbellygirl

Thanks for your insightful questions.

If a man only feels affection, a man can still want to have sex with her. Men want to have sex because of the sexual pleasure they feel, which is a different positive mental effect than love or affection. Love is triggered when a man in love concludes that is woman is happy. Affection is triggered by the sight or sound of a familiar person. Sexual pleasure is triggered by the sight of a woman or having sex.

[weatherbellygirl]

due to circumstance and then later they are reunited will his feelings kind of be frozen in place at the point that they were separated if it was before the four year mark?

[ayviamelody]

@TheChaosPokemaster why are u so offended? saying "men" is just a word. No one said they were bad men just because they aren't in love. being in love is a feeling which is neither right or wrong and men as well as women need to accept that and not pretend. and of course every guy is going to say they're different and not like all other men lol

[ayviamelody]

@TheChaosPokemaster thats only 6 months.he's talking about after a couple of years it will change. and how is it sticking up for women?That actually sucks for women cuz women are more emotional and they want love.It's just simple fact for everyone. So on both sides, men need to stop pretending to love just so they can get what they want, and women need to realize they can't give men what they want just for love and they need to accept its only their presence that keeps the guy there after years