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SO I know this is an issue that you guys have a lot of problems with and if you are constantly seeking approval from women, this will limit their ability to be attracted to you.

Approval seeking behaviour when it comes to women can be communicated in a number of different ways

1) Apologising for your actions

2) Seeking to get attention from her

3) Asking for her permission

4) Being afraid to say something that may offend her - Only wanting to act in ways that will make her like you more.


In this video I will talk about some of the ways you can overcome this approval seeking behaviour

1)Come from an abundance mentality

2)Change what you focus on

3)Surrounding yourself with people who are confident, don't so much have the urge to seek approval from other people and who have your
best interests at heart.

Enjoy!

Hot Alpha Female

P.s This is take two of this video. I realized I edited the last video with the same clip twice over. Oops. lol

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  • i'm not obsequious at all, but women are extremely approval seeking by nature, all we men need to do is remain calm and bring that out of them. here's a tip, next time you talk to a girl, do not laugh at the first statement she makes that's intended to be funny, but keep eye contact and dominant body language. she will become so submissive it isn't even funny. she is very insecure and if she is not with her friends, she's quite pathetic, it's like shootin fish in a barrel.

  • this society has fucked up the dating game.... make it into rocket science

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  • Very useful tips, thanks and no thanks!

  • Aussie chicks know the truth. H.O.T.

  • I'm a girl, and i can actually identify with lots of behavioral patterns you describe in your videos, even when you're talking about men's behavior. So just wanted to say i agree with pretty much everything you say and find it helpful, it's almost like free therapy sessions :P

  • @olorinst75 lol typical pseudo-intellectual. "susceptibility of your argument to refutation"? seriously, quit trying to fool people into thinking you're intelligent. my guess is you probably have a psychology major or something who's never really encountered any intellectually challenging subjects. anyway, i was speaking in general terms, like the girl in this video. obviously not all women are the same, but there are behaviors that will increase your likelihood of getting laid.

  • @UltraProle21 Not all men are the same; that applies to women as well. Human character and personality is complex and intricate. Therefore, placing all individuals as masses in the same melting pot constitutes a fallacious argument within itself. As with men, there is a significant number of women who do not belong to either norm or stereotype. Not all women are attention seeking cunning-foolish pathetic little creatures. What is 'pathetic' is the susceptibility of your argument to refutation.

  • Please elaborare more on the need for men to take the lead and be in control in a positive way. I feel that so many men are programmed these days to forsake their proper gender roles. They need to understand that they are not women and evolved into a male gender for a reason. we are supposed to handle different roles in a relationship. I believe men should lead. but they need to learn that leadership doesn't mean dictating. I just means having the courage to take the first step ..

  • At the end was some good advice. At the end of the day, women want to be led. This goes for all women. It doesn't matter how "strong" or "independent" a women portrays herself. It's in her natural genetic code to want a man to lead her where she is to go. Unfortunately society has shackled men from actually being men to an extent and have this portrayel that women have all the power when it was never meant to be this way.

  • inside a man there is the strength and the weakness,seeking approval automatically sends you into your weak place.Women always despise a man when he's in his weak place

  • Good video......sound advice

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