Being A Man and Developing Your Presence ....

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In a number of my other videos I talk about the importance of a man having presence. This presence and masculinity helps to draw out a woman's femininity, receptiveness and appreciation ... which are all good things.

In addition presence will not only enrich the relationships you have with women, but help to create a much more fulfilling life.

To be present is to have all your experiences, attention and resources focused all in one point in time; that which is happening right now.

It involves being in your body, becoming aware of all the thoughts and distractions which may be circulating your mind and then letting them pass over you. Learning presence means you will be able to truly hear what another is saying and it will help create a space between a thought and a particular emotion which may or may not lead to a particular action. Presence allows you to stop operating on autopilot and allows you to regain back control.

You can develop presence mentally and physically. Both are very easy to do, but it will require practice and integration over time.

In terms of attracting women, developing presence also allows you to treat everyone equally. Since you are practicing removing the judgmental thoughts about yourself and others - you can treat really attractive women just as equals - as real people. There is no time for putting them on a pedestal, approval seeking or belief in self defeating thoughts.

Enjoy!

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[OniNoFro]

Interesting ideas which may be useful to some.

My presence is simply being me. I do not project as I have no reason to. My interactions with the world around me are on my terms.

Gentlemen. if you 'develop presence' with the goal of garnering the approval of others, you exist only as people want to see you (as it fits their life).

If you understand and develop yourself with no goal other than being your self (yes the space is intentional) then you are likely to be content in all things.

[wes2469]

wow, that was some pretty good shit! I'd hate to be her boyfriend. I'd always be getting psychoanalyzed. but I could have some deep conversations, after the great sex.

[MrCassanova08]

@OniNoFro I genuinely wish to seek knowledge from you and understand what presence is, in its true essence. Do you have an email I can keep contact with you?

[OniNoFro]

@MrCassanova08

I would recommend you take the time to learn about yourself and what you personally value (hold in the utmost regard). Look for information on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. I would also recommend auditing 1st and 2nd year psych courses that are independent of women's studies departments.

I would also put forward that you are on your own. That stark statement should serve as a catalyst for what it means to determine your own presence and your own worth.

Asking others is folly.

[OniNoFro]

@MrCassanova08

Correct. No channel exists because often on youtube, people build their rebuttals on how I choose to entertain myself on the internet; not on my words. So I removed that weakness from their potential arguments.

[MrCassanova08]

@OniNoFro Your channel is not available?

[MrCassanova08]

@OniNoFro I will give that a go. By the way, theres a guy on youtube he focuses on self development, he made a recent video on how to develop presence. I will inbox it to you, let me know what you think.

[MrCassanova08]

@OniNoFro Wow, this is all some serious stuff. Could you recommend me a book, so I can start off. I have a deep driving desire to learn and hope you could become my mentor. You seem to know your shit pretty well. I like your knowledge, I respect it too.

[OniNoFro]

@MrCassanova08

A shortcut to begin understanding my response is to watch HAF's video again, close your eyes and listen intently to the words.

While doing this, ask yourself: Who does this REALLY benefit; me as a man on a daily basis, or the general sentiment of women making demands to earn their approval?

[OniNoFro]

@MrCassanova08

The quality of self? A few texts on psych. Scores of sociology studies/journals. Direct observation of hundreds of men & women. Coupled with a reasonable understanding (through study & observation) of ecological/economic theories and the absence of a mutually beneficial social contract between people leads to one conclusion of:

know yourself

respect those who earn it

respect yourself over those unknown to you

ignore external pressure providing you w/no reciprocity

[MrCassanova08]

@jpd782 I like your comment. I think its the vibe you give out, your inner state will always be congruent with your outer state. Being positive helps, smiling is good.

[MrCassanova08]

@huke1928 i like the way you speak. good man.