Showing interest in someone you rejected earlier

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[SkinnyGirl125]

What if I ( a female) lost a lot of weight (which I have been doing) and there are two types of men showing interest in me now

1) new ones I never met before

2) old ones I used to run into, hi and bye, but now they are trying to make small talk/get to know me

3) the ones who pretty much ignored me/were rude to me, now hold doors, smiling,

How do i act, ps, I gone from a size 18/20 heading to a size 4

[arkady39]

That's an amazing transformation! Enjoy your new you and be/act happy as you should be. Disregard the past as I am sure you could relate now why some people fount you unattractive. They just couldn't help it, even if they didn't want to be mean.

[GLOWORM360]

wot if i said fuck off and die, but now i want her?

[arkady39]

That kind of language might be hard to forgive to most girls (as it should), so perhaps you should work on making sure that you don't have such outbursts in the future.

[Mjkseven]

"Hey, I changed my mind. I got to know you better and I really like to know who you are."

"Oh, that's so sweet of you but I'm not interested in you anymore. Piss off."

[arkady39]

"No problem... have a nice day."

[80s90shousemami76]

im a woman and if u rejected me the first time i would ignore u and flirt with ur friends also ....

[MrMiddleweightchamp]

It goes like this: If a man rejects a woman and later changes his mind and tries to get with her she won't take him back EVER.... However, if a woman rejects a man and decides later she wants him back the man in most cases will take the woman back.  BOOYAH!!

[drfragment123]

@80s90shousemami76 That's "taking it badly".

[bg11215]

If someone rejected me at first, it's HIGHLY unlikely I'd give them a second chance. If they were so judgmental from the get-go, then that's not the character of someone I'd want to have around me or allow the privilege of getting to know me. So I'd probably move on.

[Mystefier]

@SkinnyGirl125 I think you should open up to them, except the ones that were clearly rude to you. Can't blame someone for not being interested, but regardless of your past size, being rude to you was showing poor character. Good men are polite to people regardless of appearance.

[davidattends]

@arkady39

I don't agree here. If the 3rd group rejected that girl, they should be the last option for her. The 1st group might consist of all types of men, so they would deserve a chance. But definitely, the 2nd group is the best kind of men: they were conscious of here existence and let her know it, even when she didn't feel good about herself for being that overweigh.

[DJDiversity09]

in this position. i 'rejected' a girl 3/4 years ago. hate the word reject but i nicely said no to her because she was not the same religion as me. but as iv got older and more mature, i dont believe that should be an obstacle. but recently we started talking again and she has helped me out and picked me up when i was down. so boy its a funny position to be in.

[MikeG82]

I don't think many girls give a guy a second chance after he already rejected them, especially if the girl has other options

years ago I got in touch with a girl on myspace that I basically didn't talk to when we went to school, because i had a girlfriend at the time, she gave me almost every non verbal sign in the book

she seemed in awe of me until she started to realize i wasn't going to ask her out

she just ignored my message and denied my friend request

[southsidebaby17]

exactly how do you know you just werent the second choice? lol thats why you should take into account why the person changed there mind, and if they want a second opourtunity, its your judgement call!