Re: A desire to be Understood

Before we find out what the question is, do I want to speak to you?
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[yafanna3]

My gosh! I'm gone for a few days and now, see I've missed a juicy drama.Since you and terry are both in my subscriptions, I get the new ones I've missed at log in.While hoppimg around and catching the video responses sometime in reverse order, it finally dawns on me, it's a friggin' soap opera!Does it really apply to real life? That's why I don't do anything except poetry. It's from the past.

[vincewood02]

Hello, Fay! Glad you're catching up with the drama between Terry and I. Like all soap operas, we are sometimes on here twice a day ... at least! Haha!

I think poety is real life too, Fay, or a refection of our experiences. Wouldn't you agree?

Whatever Terry and I are doing (and I am not sure either of us knows what it is yet), please be assured I think we know we want to steer this soap opera towards a happy ending.

It's nice you're back, Fay. x

[vincewood02]

Today's one of those days for me too, kimi. I just hope tomorrow will be different. :) x

[desire4liberation]

I can't read the lines,

let alone... between  :)

[vincewood02]

I don't know what Terry likes yet! Haha! But I do know I am enjoying this conversation with you.

So, whilst I am waiting for his response and, when I have time (I'm unemployed and it's a situation that is busier than I expected), I'm going over to your channel to see what you have to say.

Maybe this evening. I'm looking forward to it. x

[vincewood02]

It is sad you have lost friends, Ask. Me, too. For very similar reasons.

I think that's why we are becoming friends. Maybe we were both reading "between the lines" in our comments. Maybe we recognised something of ourselves in each other.

Thank you for sticking to your guns too. :)

[vincewood02]

My therapist/trainer used the Parent Adult Child model more than anything else.

I may find it's worth revisiting it again.

And, I wouldn't say I know a lot more about TA. But I will accept I may know a little more.

But, what I do know is about 15 years old now. The rest of my personal development is down purely to life experience and just "watching" how other people behave.

And none of us need training for that, don't you think? It's just fun to do it! :)

[vincewood02]

I'm coming to realise my therapist was way ahead of his time. He often referred to "I'm okay ... You're okay".

I don't know what's happened to him. I searched for him before the days of the internet. I may be more successful now I'm "online"; it's only been six months now.

I'll let you know.

[vincewood02]

I'm so with you there. I too am only just beginning to learn that. Thank you very much for you input.

Enjoy your day! x

[fr3thinker]

Easily done. I often do it - especially when I'm feeling defensive and under attack. I'm only just learning - far too late in my opinion - that sometimes in my life some people were not attacking me nor trying to undermine or manipulate me. Although other times some people were attacking me, etc. Our (from my experience) bad life experiences can cause us to see much attack that is not attack.