"Before Sunrise" 8/10

"Before Sunrise" part 8

Category:

Film & Animation

Tags:

• Before
• Sunrise
• Julie
• Delpy
• Ethan
• Hawke

[punkofmudd]

the telephone scene is my fave after the record store one--they were finally honest with each other

[mukoe980]

i just realized her previous comment "some good things come out of conflict" is very relevant!they met because of relocating for a fighting couple!

[LaxNoise]

I still think the funniest part of this film is Julie Delpy impersonating an american guy haha 'Hi dude... whats up!?'

[poisoncupcake74]

This is the kind of movie you never want to end.

[thethakuri]

@AZNKC Thats what Julie Delpy says in the movie. And this is not a science topic but more of a social propaganda.

[blahdelablah]

@AZNKC

Thank you, you helped me understand something important. A key part of conversation is tailoring the level of depth based on how well you knew someone. I knew this before, but what I often thought was that small talk was not interesting, so wanted to skip it. Now I see that every level of conversation can be interesting, if you want it to be. Thanks again.

[AZNKC]

@blahdelablah it seems you figured out your own problem. Note: the rate you express yourself depends how much the other person wants to know. You can tell a close friend anything about you at anytime because thats the nature of your relationship. However keep in mind, this level of comfort occurred gradually. The same applies for women, you have to build up to that level of communication. It doesnt happen spontaneously. When shes ready, she will ask you more about yourself in her own way.

[blahdelablah]

@AZNKC

"To much when its not time is overwhelming." That's my problem, either I'm full on or I'm not really there. If I tone it down, am I being myself? I think my issue is that I want the connection so badly I push people away.

[AZNKC]

@blahdelablah You dont fool women, you show them who you are bit by bit. To much when its not time is overwhelming. However it sounds like what your looking for is a best friend (women) which turns into a relationship. Regardless you will have to meet them like any other girl like in the movie or the ways i listed above. Its the honest truth, very few girls will do the approaching even if they find you attractive. if something isnt paying off then you leave it and try something new. Simplicity!

[blahdelablah]

@AZNKC

Thank you for your reply. It's interesting that you reply to me just now, as I'm feeling somewhat hollow, partly from making an effort when its not going to work out.

All I want is someone I can talk to freely where we're both comfortable and feel understood. Playing the game to make people like you feels like you're fooling them, and maybe you are, but it also seems to be what you need to go through to meet someone. It sounds ridiculous but I'd want to find someone without that part.

[AZNKC]

@thethakuri I didnt know this, please elaborate? Im a science student...

[AZNKC]

@blahdelablah Cautious is also a sign of being tactful and respectful. Its nothing be ashamed of. Im just worried this is how you rationalize not talking to someone you find attractive when given the opportunity. To quote my favourite cup and batman, "doing things changes things." Doesnt mean go to bar tonight though. I mean asking that one question that your waiting to ask before parting way with the girl you walked out of orgo chem with. "hey you want coffee before class tomorrow?" good luck