Part 5 HOMEBIRTH - July 3, 2011

My Mother came into the room *she was supposed to be watching our children in the living room* w/ an iPod that she was on Facetime with, with her mother, my grandmother who I haven't spoken to in years, who asked to watch my birth live.... Joel told her to get out b/c she came in being loud and it wasn't what I wanted to hear while I was pushing....& he knew that. & Yes she yelled "I guess I'll just fly my ass back home." She left our home directly afterwards, leaving our children unattended, after cursing at a few birth team members that is & never meeting her granddaughter. She flew home the next day. To this day she expects an apology from us. We have not spoken.

A SPECIAL thanks to Amy (dreamflight6000) & her hubby for helping me convert this last file of the birth that has been a pain in my rear for days. So make sure you tell them thanks or I'd still be trying to figure this out....leaving y'all in suspense.

Part 1 of HOMEBIRTH:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmjmIay9D9c

Part 2 of HOMEBIRTH:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGYMFdII5CI

Part 3 of HOMEBIRTH:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQBKL_jQKFg&feature=relmfu

Part 4 of HOMEBIRTH:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKONsx__4as

July 2, 2011
10:53 PM My MW's arrive
11:20 PM Prayer

July 3, 2011
12:01 AM Lost mucus plug
12:25 AM Cottonroot Bark
12:35 AM Cervical check +1 Station 7 1/2 cm & baby's hand can be felt atop her head
12:42 AM Cervical pressure points
1:20 AM Bouncing on the birth ball
2:05 AM Birth photographer arrived
2:23 AM Outside for a walk
2:40 AM Bouncing on birth ball
3:05 AM Hibiclense wash
3:20 AM Cervical pressure points
3:25 AM Cervical Check w/ possible asynclitic head?
3:50 AM Moved to birth chair w/ more cervical pressure points
4:00 AM Arnica
4:15 AM Standing/Dangling during contractions
4:24 AM Moved to birth pool
4:54 AM Moved to kneeling position over side of birth pool
5:03 AM Moved back to reclining position in pool
5:14 AM Pool wamred up. Spontaneous pushing w/ contraction
5:31 AM Brief push w/ contraction
5:48 AM Pool rewarmed
5:55 AM 9cm & 90% effaced intact BBOW
6:01 AM Rolled top open kneel forward position
6:04 AM Strong urge to push w/ contraction
6:06 AM 2 pellets of arnica for swelling
6:23 AM Moved to semi recline position
6:25 AM 9 cm & 98% effaced, intact sac
6:30 AM Moved back to open kneel
7:15 AM Moved to recline
7:17 AM Requesting AROM, Moved to kneeling forward
7:23 AM 9.5 cm & BBOW
7:42 AM Moved to semi recline, AROM complete, Fluid Clear, Lots of pressure
7:47 AM +2 Station, 10 cm w/ a lip of cervix
7:48 AM Large volume of vomit-5 times
7:49 AM Dry heaves
7:50 AM +3 Station, Lip Reducing
8:04 AM Moved to full open squat
8:09 AM Requesting birthing chair
8:17 AM Head born
8:19 AM BABY BORN!!!
8:45 AM Placenta delivered
8:50 AM Cord cut by Joel & Jacelyn

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[Ninitschga]

first i want to say how much i admire you for going through all this and still you were able to follow the midwives directions!!! when my baby was born i remember i just kept pushing - although i was inbetween contractions. (natrual birth, breech position) how did you stay focused on what they said?

[xxxjoelpolexxx]

@Ninitschga One of the midwives was in my ear & was great at keeping my attention. She kept me focused and reminded me of what I needed to do. She reminded me of my fears of tearing and that was enough to power to have the will power to let me body push and me not add to it. i had a lip of swollen cervix with my son and couldn't push due to it and it was a nightmare. it hurt so bad. this wasn't nearly as painful and I kept thinking of his birth so again it made it easier.

[LilPrincess2141]

do you have 3 kids? was the last one a girl? and was it really hard to give birth?

[xxxjoelpolexxx]

@LilPrincess2141 yes, Yes, Yes :)

[xxxjoelpolexxx]

@Olensushkami Ur comment again, assuming. U should really practice to not pass judgement. I did what was right for my baby & I. Period. I got out bc I wanted to. I stayed out bc it felt better. I like gravity & needed gravity....I DID WHAT MY BODY TOLD ME TO.

[hcmontessori]

@Ladyslipper3- If you've ever had a home birth or even an all-natural birth in hospital, you would know that stress WILL make your labor more painful & longer/less effective. The grandma in this situation was VERY selfish, not thinking of her daughter over her own feelings. Birth is PAINFUL enough! It was very inconsiderate & selfish of her, especially since she was asked to simply watch the kids & not interfere. She agreed to that, yet still felt the need to say something... How presumptuous.

[holimoli303]

how cute that was amazing done oh i cant wait ontyill i get birth am got see see my baby so cute ... :D

[Lorvickster]

Congradulations on that beautiful baby, i can't imagine what you go through, closes i come is giant craps.

[onesweethang11]

she should of calmed down waited and talked later about it.to leave her grandkids? to leave you?..you and your man made this baby...not her.

I do hope after time...she mighht come around...just try to be open and forgive if she is a good gma to your other kids...if not let it go...just cause people are family does not give them the right to be mean.I wish you lots of luck and a wonderous life with your new little one!

congrats you are a strong woman to share this with us...thank you again.

[onesweethang11]

she should of calmed down waited and talked later about it.to leave her grandkids? to leave you?..you and your man made this baby...not her.

I do hope after time...she mighht come around...just try to be open and forgive if she is a good gma to your other kids...if not let it go...just cause people are family does not give them the right to be mean.I wish you lots of luck and a wonderous life with your new little one!

congrats and you are a strong woman to share this with us...thank you again.

[onesweethang11]

..she should of calmed down waited and talked later about it....to leave her grandkids? to leave you?..you and your man made this baby...not her.

[onesweethang11]

wow thanks for sharing.

so what you told her to get out? you are in labor and cant think lol...we say things never imagined...she should know that unless she was all drugged up when she had you!....she should of calmed down waited and talked later about it....to leave her grandkids? to leave you?..you and your man made this baby...not her.

[Ninitschga]

@TICABELLA23 just in case you never gave birth (not having a c-section): if a woman is about to have a baby its all about HER! not about other people or even grandparents. ITS ABOUT HER! just respect that!!!

[mommachilders]

beautiful  video~