BDSM Talk 9

I have several riding crops that I got from tack shops they are awesome toys. I ordered my braided cat flogger and my quirt from De tail Toys.
I love the custom colors you can order them in.

Each person has his or her own preferances, but I crave the "stingy" pain, but find the "thud" feel to be a distraction.

The more viscious the sting, the more I crave it.

yeah there is a difference... but neither are a problem 4 most practising proper bdsm.

anything seriously damaging will interfere with future play, and for a lot Doms part of being a Dom is taking care of the sub and therefore making sure the sub doesn't get hurt in any serious way. Having to take a trip to the hospital kind of puts a damper on the scene too. And some couples will cut as part of play, but damage would mean cutting into veins or something by accident - im pretty sure death isnt a desirable outcome for even the most extreme bdsm couples.

what do u mean without doing damage? Why don't you want to cause damage?? are u actually being nice to the submissive... Surely thats not the point. Its the pain for a lot of people that makes it good.

There is a small difference between pain and damage. Pain just hurts, like bruises and scratches, damage means cuts and things I think. Right?

Damage qualifies you as a criminal sexual sadist or sadistic serial killer. You don't want to be that.

It's the whole "mutual consent"-thing. Are you two mutually consenting adults doing this? OK, well... go and be merry. Otherwise, jail 4 U.

... "it's great!" :)))

being a submissive i think that her trying to tell Dom's how to "beat" Their property is ludacris. if Y/you have to watch youtube for D/s hints than i feel sorry for Yya. and before Yya all say "well what are you doing here then?" the answer is plain and simple i was hoping maybe there would be a nice lil scene.