Is confidence overrated

Does anyone think having confidence is overrated? On one hand good to have but... At the same time you can have all the confidence in the world. And still not score with women and why you ask?

Because it's a fact women are more judge mental than men Whenever a woman sees a guy,the woman has judged the guy already as to if she'd like to get to know him or not
Is that true or not?

So in conclusion the"you need confidence"is a big fat lie. That women have made up over the yrs. If there is any truth to this theory? Than explain why all men from good-looking to rich have trouble with women if it's just the soo called confidence.- Answered by Tamsen Fadal & Matt Titus on GirlsAskGuys.com

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[GameIsLooks]

i used the fake photo of a really good looking guy and any lame joke i was telling girls was automatically funny. i was able to talk about sex within the first few messages. i even told the girls i was "shy" and "unconfident" but they were like "its okay baby" and blah blah, see what i mean? confidence is only a good quality to have if you are an attractive or wealthy male. other than that it is like putting lipstick on a pig.

[r1oot]

Confidence is overrated. I believe having humility, perseverance, motivation, AND a bit of confidence can go a long way into developing character and leadership . But most women can never understand that all they want is confidence this and confidence that and aggressive this and all the bullshit they made up. I thought if I was motivated enough to talk to a women, it would sound better then being "Confident" to talk to women. But I'm a guy so IDK how women think. It's also all about skills.

[MrHav1k]

CONFIDENCE IS A FUCKING BULLSHIT MYTH. You can be as confident as all hell, but if you're ugly, you're fucked no matter what.

[SaintTaurus]

@GameIsLooks been after the wrong type of girls there bud :P

[SaintTaurus]

@GameIsLooks it's true that confidence for most people is based off on validation from other people... but it doesn't need to be

[SaintTaurus]

@GameIsLooks women's mind CAN be changed... first impressions CAN be changed over time

[SaintTaurus]

@r1oot i agree with you that confidence is overrated and humility is good... but true heart and mind is confident without the aggressiveness/cockiness.. and what do you mean by motivated enough to talk to women? some shy guys would never approach women because their whole life they r seasoned with the belief that they don't "need' women..until they are "motivated aka NEEDY" enough.... so NO don't rely on motivation to talk to women...get the ball rolling...talk to people more and more everyday!

[GameIsLooks]

i see "confident" UNATTRACTIVE men get shut down all the time by women at bars, clubs, house parties etc... the women wind up going home with the better looking guy even if they HAD TO APPROACH him first lol.. women are very assertive and like i said at the end of the day they are going to open their legs to the best looking guy not the most "confident" one lol.

[GameIsLooks]

in 1-5 seconds after seeing a mans photo or seeing him in real life, a woman has already made up her mind about a man, no amount of game, confidence, charisma can change her mind otherwise. you always talk about that one ugly guy with a hot girl, but for one ugly with a hot girl you show me, i will show you 230984209348 ugly guys who are kiss less virgins. it is not because they don't have confidence it is because they are ugly lol.

[GameIsLooks]

women are liars. they LOVE to talk about how looks mean nothing to do them and how if a guy possess these bs characteristics like a good personality, or confidence, or assertive they will be open to sleeping with him. that is a lie. a woman will sleep with the better looking guy at the end of the day regardless of how shitty his personality is. look at online dating, they reject you based on your picture just like in real life when they first saw you they made up their mind about you.

[GameIsLooks]

if i told a toothless bum to walk into a club who was broke and he had "confidence" do you think anyone would take him seriously? of course not. he has nothing to be "confident" about. you get confidence from being good at something or validation from other people. the fat kid that always got made of and rejected and "ewwd" by every girl he ever came across would not have the same amount of confidence as a good looking guy who had women complimenting him his whole life.

[GameIsLooks]

lol, confidence please, the first thing women want to when they are talking to you is your picture so they can stereotype you out like they do in real life. if a guy is attractive the women will reciprocate with him and take their clothes off for him. if the guy is unattractive they will call him a creep regardless of how much confidence he has. confidence is only a good thing to have if girls already find you sexually attractive. confidence can't make an unattractive man attractive.