The Bi's have feelings too

A bisexual's individual sexuality isn't necessarily dependent on their current relationship.

Just because a bisexual person is in a straight relationship does not make them straight, and if they are in a same-sex relationship does not make them gay.

Give bisexuals a break, people!

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[adrianldk]

I'm bisexual, and I wouldn't cheat on my partner with either gender. But no matter what the gender of my partner is, I will always be bisexual.

[mfost0424]

Thank you,,, you explained it so well. Just because I am bi does not mean I will jump from one side to the other and back again... I can and have fallen in love with either a man or a woman,,, but not always at the same time. Each relationship before my current one was with one person with whom I was in love...

[sushi12131998]

man, The made me remeber when I was called lesbo all because I like girl, They never even realize that you like guys too...hate it.

[youngandlesbian]

He's not telling her not to be bisexual, he's just suggesting that she don't advertise to people that she is. I'm not saying I don't agree with the person who wrote in. If she's bisexual it is silly to think that will change just because she's in a monogamous relationship. But playing devil's advocate I can see how he might feel like it could send the wrong message if she is posting that she is bi on the Internet for anybody to see. They might think she is involved with women or wants to be.

[thomaseshuis]

@queencolondarkwing And Bi guys! We've got feelings too :)

[queencolondarkwing]

I agree so much with this. Thanks for speaking for us bi girls out there.

[JGT318]

Love you, Lori. Great video. And I'm so glad I can actually hear you this time :D

[FM897]

Bisexuals have feelings??! Nahhhhhh :)

[Lixilon]

This all makes SO much sense! -3

[AlyLunatika]

Thank you for the vid Lori, very clear as always. I'm not bi but I think it is really unfair to try to make them fit in either the 'gay' or the 'straight' category...I think that the guy is probably intimidated by the idea of his future wife being attracted to women because he wouldn't know how to compete with that. But the point is that if they're in a commited relationship her attraction to women is not a 'threat' to him, even though it's relevant and it should be acknowledged.

[olgadamole]

If she were straight, would he be concerned that she'd leave him for another man? It's the same situation. Just because she is bi should not make him any more concerned about her leaving him.

Or is it the fact that he simply does not like the idea of his future wife identifying herself as bi? Maybe this makes him feel inferior? Maybe he's worried about how her orientation will reflect on him?

Well, I hope they can work it out! Keep your dignity, woman! more power to you!!

[jbschott3]

Everything about this video was amazing. Thanks Lori!