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Uploaded by on Dec 11, 2011

http://vanae.com to get the "5 AWESOME tips for CONFIDENCE". remember you are worthy and deserving of love. strive for meaning and purpose.

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  • I appreciate your effort Vanae - it's just that i feel your videos are all appealing to emotion and junk in self development books. Do you have any real advice or substance to help us find a relationship? I just wish you knew how tough it really is to find a g/f. I wish you had to be a man for a day and had to do all the work of approaching females, planning dates - if conversation isn't just perfect its over, if they don't see you as someone who gets girls its over, the list goes on and on

  • @snowboardin1 if you don't have the foundation of self-esteem & confidence (which you referred to as so-called emotion & junk), then you wouldn't be able to execute my practical/tactical advice successfully. people who don't work on themselves internally, look for shortcuts, then fail miserably and blame others when they do

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  • Excellent msg on positivity, Vanae. However, ur advice on NOT using tactics to get girls is total bullshit. All that "be yourself" shit that chicks always say--its nonsense. "Myself" is a nice guy, n nice guys don't score. When it comes to dating advice, women ONLY tell you what they EVENTUALLY want (a nice) n NOT what they want right NOW. Guys don't want to wait that long to ge women after they've already been used up by the badboys, Vanae

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  • @vanae12 I don't know what's a bigger fail this Vlog, or this response to a comment that nailed it right on the head. You have to stop relating your "hot girl tactics" to everyone out there. Not everyone is born a hot girl therefore has it ridiculously easy to meet someone, even half decent girls have it heaps easier than very attractive males. Relate the material you spew to everyone, instead of rash generalizations

  • I'm impressed. You are not wrong.

  • @EienAii I appreciate your understanding and i kind of see where you are coming from however I have heard of many situations where guys found a really special person only after using techniques and tactics. Most guys don''t see this as not being themselves but as adding to themselves so at least girls give them the chance to get to know to know them. Often times females are so shallow that if you aren't immediately, funny, entertaining - they won't talk to you ever again and u are done

  • wow you dropped the f word

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  • Hi Vanae,I really need YOUR help:I am expecting VERY much of myself,I always want to give my best.That is why I often start to cry in situations I feel I cannot handle,espec. whenever I am criticised by an authoritarian person.In that cases I want to defend my point and give arguments (I have self-confidence to do so!) BUT I just start crying and that blocks me from saying anything else,I feel confused and angry with myself.Please help me,and please thumbs up so she can see...Thanks!!

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