How to stop a tantrum in 5 seconds
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I know a better way. A good old fashioned Spanking.
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children don't learn when they are having a fit. During the fit, they are miserable and in distress. They need help to calm down and be able to listen to parenting and love. Any other option to help children that is not soft, tender and gentle is not appropriate, it leads to adults knowing that nobody really cares, it leads to people being bitter and seeing bad when there is good. Nothing will ever replace love, gentleness and nature, such as the smell of a fruit.
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i wish i could get some of that stuff there are six soon to be eight little kids running around and it is hard to get them to stop throwing a tantrum once they start
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Just a stern look was enough to work for me. there were few times but theres a look my mother would give if i acted out and it was enough to make me feel like i just got spanked or it could have been that i knew if i continued to act out a spanking was coming.
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@Danny8849 I believe you describe a child who is more than "just a pest". You make very important observation and it would be very important for this child that you could communicate with the parents to seek for proper evaluation. Children do not misbehave to be mean, there is always a hidden cause for violent behavior and your noting the "odd" noises she makes is also reason for concern. You may be able to help the family and the child
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@MAPSClaudie she also tried to feel my friends crouch she really did do it , also after she tried hitting her grandma with a watershooter the grandma told her dad i never expected her dad to beat her i thought only her mom would beat her. with the way people like her parents and grandma and brother threated her she thinks shes too cute to say no to and that shes so cute that she deserves special threatment she could make retarded noises and if u say shut up to her the grandma will defend her
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@Danny8849 this is pretty terrible you are right. Her parents should certainly work at helping this little girl to take her place in the family with no violence. They are up for larger problems when she will gorw older and stronger.
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@MAPSClaudie my friend has a cousin whose a spoiled lil brat she likes to feel like shes better then everyone else she when she doesnt get what she wants she either tells (she does this to me cause i laugh at her when she fake cries) or fake cries though everyone already know that she is bad she is her grandma may be too forgiving towards her the girl could just say shut the hell up and the grandma will do it the lil girl also tried hitting the women's back with a water shooter shes 4 years old
six is a larg number for certain! if you are in the US you cannot buy it, but you can try another fruit arome, even vanilla extract. I hope it helps
MAPSClaudie 6 months ago 2
It is amazing how in tune you were with your mom. You just knew she was not joking! Sometimes children are disconnected, they are in distress and don't even see that their parents want only the best for them. A nice scent of fruit can help those children to reconnect first with themselves, then with the parent.
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago 4
are you the mother in this video ? juss wondering cuz if it is you your daughter is so cute
tonigurl1998 7 months ago
@tonigurl1998 I wish I was so young and beautiful as the mother in the video, BUT, I am the happy grand mother of this little girl, who, now, does not have fits anymore, thanks to that nice fruit smell her mom used regularly. I devote my time to helping parents discover that multi sensory therapy is the way to help children when they are in distress. thank you for the nice compliment, Claudie Gordon Pomares
MAPSClaudie 7 months ago