Gaijin husbands and Japanese wives. Pt. 2

Pt. 2

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People & Blogs

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• Japan
• Japanese
• Asia
• Asian
• Marriage
• Wives
• Husbands
• Foreign
• Intercultural
• Lies
• Truths
• Faithfulness
• Cheating

[orangedac]

good conversation man.

keep it coming.

i have this japanese girl wanting to go out with me but i ain't japanese and I'm a little worried about the cultural difference and what to expect.

[GS350JPN]

@orangedac I tell everyone to listen to "Too Short, Ice Cube, and Snoop Dogg. There music, especially Too Short's, will be the best advice you can get. When you dating them the cultural differences will only arise if you try to get to personal. You are only dating. Have fun and be a man for as long as you can. They are good at what they do. Can't hate though.

[shenhua10]

Is your wife Japanese?

[GS350JPN]

@shenhua10 Yes.

[Cinnamonpoptarts1]

lol this just proves my point ... love dose not exist. In relationships there is only attraction. Attraction can be created and lost in a instant. Learning how the female mind works will help out alot. Petty arguments in a relationship are subliminal messages saying she is losing attraction for you.

[GS350JPN]

@Cinnamonpoptarts1 True. OR you don't treat me like you did when we first me. Or I am sleeping with your best friend or whatever. LOL!

[ilkandi1]

word man.. I totally agree, find a quality you like in her other than your love and her looks.

[heybaba77]

Thanks for the video Ralph it gives me a good perspective on Japanese women, but if u want a J wife u should not go a one that dresses too sexy, go for at least a pretty one who is an okay dresser and mature My African buddy have been married to a japanese girl for 14yrs with J women if u want love look for one that want love but let her come to you

[StoicSamurai]

Loved your thoughts on this subject man. As far as the whole financial success differences, those should not matter either. Society has drilled these things so far into our minds that it causes some type of emotional response. It's crazy to think of the completely different cultural aspect of a relationship in Japan because im sure most if not all foreigners have a very small grasp of the expectations of a native person. Anyways keep on keepin on.

[tokutom]

@GS350JPN I think it's about finding someone you can tolerate.

[Mikelee19942012]

Nice advice thx

[thewillfulldreamer]

I have fallen to love once and since then I have learned to be in control of myself. Resisting attraction can be difficult but its just as easy as walking away or playing it safe.

[thewillfulldreamer]

@Cinnamonpoptarts1 Love does exist. Love is what causes the attraction to happen. But its a chemical reaction that weak people cant seem to take control of. Many people, especially Americans, react impulsively to their emotions and have no discipline. If people could just control themselves, failed relationships wouldnt happen as often. But I suppose it cant be helped.