Would I date a person who's HIV+?

Blurbs:
I get asked these questions all too often, felt like I should at least record my answer.

First question: Would I date someone who is HIV positive.
Second question: Would I date a DL man?


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• hiv
• hiv+
• lgbt
• dL
• men
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• gay

[GodsChildDior]

I would 1st like to say i think you should have put a time limit on youslef... When talking about something this important it sould go until you think you have gotten your point across... I really am interested and hearing more on these topics because its not only helpful but its educating to the gay community.

[freeahmier]

@GodsChildDior You know, I have a tendency to limit myself on videos because I know for me personally, my attention span is always shot to hell. I'll take that into consideration. Thanks for watching, commenting, and the suggestion.

[freeahmier]

@nochokin I could see that being the case for a lot of people. My whole thing is, I'd rather know than not know. When you know, you're practically facing that situation head on. Not knowing and being caught off guard is far more of a bummer, to me.

[Cmoe007]

hey marco , honestly i would date a person whos HIV positive but there would be alot coming with that. scaryness worry ,agrivation all would play a part in this also. you are absolutly right about how u dont know everyones situation or wat or wat they have or are going thought .me myself i wonder alot how people think about this topic and im glad that u addressed this

[MsAnjelTS]

I've not been in that situation so I cannot honestly put in my two cents at this point. Btw, Ma Chanel sent me with love to your page so I subbed immediately. ^^ Muah♥

[steven22ful]

Great vid...4 me personaly I wld b ok wit datin sum1 hiv+, bt I wld hv an issue wit getin intimate ev1 if usin protection...I knw I wldnt b com4table n ev1 if I got intimate wit a person wit hiv+ I wld totaly freak out afta havin had sex

[yourboss2009]

I agree with all of what you said :)

I would date someone who is HIV positive also and i also believe that if you do something (sex) you have to be Redy for what comes out of it.

I think it would be hard for me to date someone who is DL because well im only 16 years old and when i was 13 I was dating a guy and i really really liked him and i was willing to come out to my parents but before i did we broke up so i think i would tell my parents right when when we're getting close

[jaiglamour]

So, I appreciate your point of view and I agree on all counts. I can't do the "DL" thing at all because I know how close I'd like to be with my significant other. Additionally, with YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, it'd be hard for someone to maintain DL with me or any of my friends

[tssexychanel]

OMG so much to say I will be back with my full comment and possibly a video response. All I have for the moment is awesome video and thats my baby

[JoyNicole1974]

Very informative. As for the whole DL phenomenon; I agree. Why should you be subjected to being someone's "dirty little secret?" DL guys come off as somewhat selfish with asking their gay partner to help conceal his being in the closet all for the sake of appeasing the heterosexuals; while at the same time, lying to and deceiving his girlfriend/wife. I agree...if you're happy with who you are, but asked to lie and conceal it, then you don't need the DL guy. Let him find another DL guy.

[sonofprophecy57]

I truly appreciate your honesty & your transparency!! Ive never dated anyone with HIV its something Ive never ever had to experience. But I do think I would date someone with HIV just because Im an open kind of person and I believe everyone needs love and I dont discriminate on how love comes or what time of package love is wrapped up in(hopefully that makes sense.) BTW: The effec tof the sun was very nice in the video!