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Uploaded by on Feb 4, 2011

Sorry this video is so long... I had a ton of information. And if your watching it for the reason it was intended I figured you wouldn't mind.

How to Avoid the Friend Zone
Ways people get in the friend zone
1. Showing too much interest
a. Over communicating
b. Communicating through texts or Facebook....email?
2. Taking advice from girls
a. Girls know what they want in a boyfriend, so that's what they will tell you to act like. But that's not what their initially attracted too
Ways people avoid the friend zone
1. Fake disinterest -- works with newly met people
aAct nice and talk to them in person, but don't constantly text or call them.
b. Get their number without showing interest.
i. Give them your number by texting them "your name"...that's it
ii. Wait to hang out with them again
c. When you do text or call, do so you can hang out
i. Hey my friend and I are going to the movies and he's bringing his girlfriend do you want to come so It won't be awkward. She should say yes or express interest...if she doesn't....move on.
d. When on the 'date'
i. Be nice
ii. Tease her...kindly
iii. Look for signs that she likes you
1. Touches face or hair
2. Is completely focused on you
3. Playful
iv. If she shows signs, ask her out on a date with just you.
2. Spread yourself out
a. More shots more hits
3. Date someone you know will say yes....practice girl...terrible, but you may end up liking he....so it's not all bad


Hope this helps! Write your success stories in the comments.

REMEMBER: "Its better to regret something that you did, rather than regret something you didn't do."

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  • I wanna know if u can fix a mistake with a girl now I thought it was ok to ask a girl out on facebook, but I think I missed up because I had done so recently and I only assume she doesn't like guys asking her out on facebook but I don't know mabye she really didn't have time to respond, but is it possible to when I see her in person again because luckely for me she is a friend of a friend but I can't ask my friend advice cauz she's a girl accourding to this vid lol, but is it possible to fix it

  • @sonoroustripleh Never ask a girl out on Facebook, its passive and you come across as shy. Ask them out in person, dont mumble or stutter. Be clear and concise. They will respect you more and be more likely to give you a chance

    My guess is that if she doesnt respond...its a no. Imagine you in her situation if you had a message from someone asking you out and you wanted to go out with them. what would you do? you would send message back saying "yes" but this didnt happen. Move onto the next girl

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  • @kylezell36 Confiding*, its to tell a girl secret stuff you dont want her to say to others. Dont do it because girls can't keep a secret AKA "GIRLS TALK"

  • i don't ask bitches out they ask me out

  • @darknumber000 To an extent, yes. Bitches tend to use smiley faces. So text that bitch a smiley face

  • @HelpMeBeHelpful Hi I'm 12 and I already got into the friend zone and my older brother tells me "bitches love smily faces" is that true?

  • :( <3 love it tho ! :D

  • @CptRexFilms987654321 depends what she says, you just want to keep it short. so a "how are you?" should be met with a pretty good. and a "what are you up to?" should be met with a nothing much. pretty much just make them seem like they're just another girl to you and that if they don't try neither will you. well just for that part anyway.

  • What if in that period where u don't text her, what if she texts you? Do You ignore her?

  • 12:17 what does conviting mean? if thats what u said. sorry.. i just dont know

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