How to Snag an Independent Woman (What She Wants: Even an ENTJ)!

Ask me questions at my FormSpring: http://www.formspring.me/NatalieAkers...How to snag an independent woman, or what to do when she says she doesn't need anyone at all! Also, some info about my Myers-Briggs Indicator Personality Type, ENTJ. There is so much info online about ENTJ's- who knew?

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[mocurio]

I like you. You sound like a real lady, who KNOWS what she wants. You aren't one of the ladies who always act naive and happy. For women, I like being with those who are in the real world, down-to-earth, tough, and self-assured, like you. I wish there were more women like you.

[natalieakers]

@mocurio Thank you! And, I have to say- Indeed.  There need to be more men who want women like me, because I haven't met very many in my single-life travels!

[existentialistcat]

That's really fascinating, the ENTJ part especially. I'm an INTP and have a connection with ENTJs, because they're so cool and have the drive and people skills that I lack... would you consider doing another video on being an ENTJ?

[natalieakers]

@existentialistcat Yes, I might do another one this week sometime!

[andrew9395]

nice video...you just pretty much confirmed everything I got going in my head about how to handle things...im not too sure it would change the way I would do it too much...but I guess I wouldnt have to..im an INFP. 5/5..here comes this part :D..you have a very nice voice and yur eyes are amazing...hmmm i think you made a subscriber out of me

[natalieakers]

@andrew9395 Thank you! You're a sweetheart!

[samm1809]

Judging in the MBTI and being judgemental are completely different things. Judging simply means you prefer to live (and feel more comfortable with) a decided and planed life based on the information that you already HAVE and get things that need to be done out of the way before you feel comfortable engaging in leisure, whereas the Perceiver prefers to live an open lifestyle, putting off decisions and obligations until absolutely neccesary to gain as much information as possible before acting.

[tacoma200]

I can still hear you accent very well. Eastern Kentucky.

[paulthebob]

ENTJ Male here -- nice video.

Considering doing one myself out of sheer boredom and lack of similar videos, but cannot decide upon topics.

[louea380]

I find the help thing funny. Just because you ask for help doesn't mean you need help! Remember that. As an ENFP, i often ask for help but it's not because i need it, i just realise that most of the time getting help is much easier and sometimes it doesn't make sense not to ask for it.

[silentMorgan500]

Being a judger doesn't mean u just judge people it means u see things as they are while perceiver sees thing as they could be

[NinjaRunningWild]

It's a hard balance to strike with two truly independent people becoming interdependent based on want and established trust, not codependent based on need and conflation of responsibility. It requires two people who know who they are, what they want, and what they *don't* want as priorities. It takes personal integrity and authenticity for both parties.

*edit* - I wrote this before listening to the entire speech.