Playing Hard to Get

http://beingaman.com: "Hard to Get" is a game that most women learn very early in life! If you play it (instead of beating it), you'll be religated to the "also rans". Learn how to beat it every time from this video.

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[ObsidianVixen]

As an FYI to all the guys saying 'stop, stop, stop', understand a bit about the female psyche for a second. You're conditioned by other females and males - YES MALES - to play the chase. Why? Because you feel if you don't lead the chase at first you will be seen as 'clingy' or 'needy' by the guy. While there is a line between them, girls tend to think in terms of one or the other. Especially if they are transferring from immature to mature relationships.

[dwneder]

Unfortunately, what you're saying is spot-on. If men (in particular) didn't put up with the games, women would have to learn a new way of dealing with dating, sex and relationships. On the flip side, these games are pre-wired into women and things like technology make them easy to play. Women need to fight their instincts if they want healthy, happy relationships - just like men do.

[disappears]

For all you women and teen girls playing that silly game, Stop it. Stop reading those dumb girl magazines telling you to play hard to get. All it's doing is boosting your ego. "That's why most girls are not getting layed because of those rediculous magazines. The women stay home playing with themselves all the time.

[ramir332]

fucking games dude seriously...

[zatoichidblind]

pick the phone up and return the goddamn phone call xD words of enlightenment right there xD

[weberkai]

I really prefer quick one night lovers than to be a long time with a silly girl that needs me to pretend playing hard to get... I dont need to have a relationship with that sick girls

[cuwhenigetthere]

This guy has some good advice. Keep in mind just like you won't be interested in every girl that approaches you neither will she be interested in every guy that approaches her. Girls & Guys can build up in their minds that someone may appear to be the "one" but you can't make them like you. If He/She were truly interested they would do their part in making time to go out again. Side Note: Guys Stop!!!! Taking girls out paying for their food and entertainment (Nice Guys). Aren't you Enough???

[fans111111]

SOS! I finally did inititate and called her again after disappearing for almost a month. But she didn't seem to care. Will I lose her or will she be grabbed by somebody else during my absence?

Poor FZ man

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[fans111111]

u'r awesome! I have followed your advice and disappeared totally for about a month hoping to get out of the friend zone. Even when she emailed me three times, I did not reply. But I was worrying if she would get so disappointed that she would turn to somebody else instead. Sounds risky! (How long should I disappear?) Or, should I keep waiting for a shy gal to take the initiative? Will I lose her if I don’t take the initiative? How long should I disappear? Please reply me asap!!

Poor FZ man,

[BallerSkier]

@Ozzrya91 yhe man it get retarded after w whyle, freking bitches

[asapstar]

from the lenght of 1:30 from the vid did you said this is the thing we call a slut factor ?? i didn't catch that

[CARPSPUDPICKER]

slut factor is when they suck you and fuck you on the first date!