wow!! thank-you so much! What a great way to put it! I do this constantly with my kids, and while I knew that I lacked giving consequences, and tried to "talk" sense into them by voicing my frustration, I did not realize that I was setting them up to believe that love is contingent on good behavior, although it always felt like something was not right about it. Thank-you for clarifying!!
wow!! thank-you so much! What a great way to put it! I do this constantly with my kids, and while I knew that I lacked giving consequences, and tried to "talk" sense into them by voicing my frustration, I did not realize that I was setting them up to believe that love is contingent on good behavior, although it always felt like something was not right about it. Thank-you for clarifying!!
jkieck73 1 year ago