DEALING WITH TEENS AND PRIVACY

HOW DO YOU HANDLE YOUR TEENS WITH PRIVACY?

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• teens
• privacy
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• school
• shootings

[Nyiol]

i dont get no privacy at all because my mom say's im still living under her roof even dohh im a responsible person..she's go's in my closet and through my pants and stuff its wrong..

[livinmybestlife]

I understand. Sometimes parents can be over bearing. We have to have a balance with it. Maybe you can talk with your mom about how you have demonstrated responsibility in the pass. Hope this works out for ya!

[ineway]

GIRL... YOU ARE CRAZY! YOU ACT JUST LIKE ME. I KID YOU NOT. My kids say I bug them too much. WHATEVER! I TELL THEM THAT THEY'RE NOT GONNA MAKE ME INTO A LIFETIME MOVIE MOM. So when theyre going through everyday issues from school life and such, one will come home with a sour face... ok ...you got till bed time to let me in on it.. NO secrets, no mess let's talk about it and then maybe we'll cry together or something. but no secrets. my girls are 12 and 14. Pray my strength in the Lord.

[livinmybestlife]

Lifetime movie mom..lol you look just like one of my friends name Valerie.  Gurl we have to do what we have to do! We will have to pray ye one for another. Thanks for your comments!

[peepla7]

you are creating an eviroment of oppression. if they have no privacy at home...they'll do it at school. if a child's friend types a curse word ...your child isnt using it. you cant santion others like that, the only thing you can do is "train your child in the way he is to go and when he is old he will not stray from that path." my daughter's friends say things i find to be offensive, ...she isnt using the same language. the comment was in response to her telling person to go to church.

[livinmybestlife]

No oppression in my home gurl! They have privacy to a certain point. You may have to listen to the vid again. thanks for your comments.

[pokelover02]

That sounds awful. My parents never invade my privacy and I am very thankful for that. It's not like I do anything they wouldn't want me to, I just feel so tense whenever I feel like they're watching everything I do. I never converse with strangers online, nor do I post anything I'm not supposed to. I just don't like my parents bugging me all the time. I'm an only child so I've become prone to needing my alone time. I just hate it when my parents are on my back when all I need is a little trust.

[younoher]

lol my dad has a restricted account ! I set parental controls on his acount and he has no idea what i do and listen to.

[OmegaWolf747]

My parents never searched my room and I'm glad they didn't. Yes, I did do some things they wouldn't have liked, but never too much because I wanted to honor their trust in me.

[Introduction08]

LOL! Now that's what I'm saying.... Had to say " hey change that status" a few times or "hey don't tell the world we are going on vacation - don't want the house robbed while we are away"

[nefferteareya]

hey,auntie. hope all is well. i agree that you have to stay on top of your kids. if you dont,they will be in all kinds of nonsense. not enough parents monitor their childrens pages on the computer. next thing you know,they out meeting with some pedophile or something tragic like that. so i definately agree that being in ya kids business is a MUST. like you said,they think they know everything when in all actuality they don't know nothing. watching you lets me know im doing my job as mom.

luv U!

[alcoholharmony]

In about 20 years, I'ma give you an update about my kids because I will be having about 3. I'm DEFINITELY gonna be on top of mines because I went through TOO much as a teenager.

However, my parents have learned how to treat me as their 20yr old son and not a child. I must learn certain things on my own that they can't prevent.

& the more my mother kept me from the world, the more I wanted to explore it. & I sure did... but I learned 4rm it.

But yeah, I'ma let you know the business later. ;)

[alonnakyle]

great video

[Jinxie228]

GREAT video ! I hear Glad talk about you. When my son was a teenager, I removed all the doors in the house and yes even the bathroom. lol No privacy at all. We need more parents more involved!