In this short clip from a recent online session for a German audience, Dr. Gordon Neufeld outlines some of his principles of developmentally safe discipline. This is part one of two. For more information on Dr. Neufeld or his book, "Hold On to Your Kids" visit www.gordonneufeld.com (English site) or www.gordonneufeld.de (German site)
The main message I gleaned was that "Time Out" , and "Taking Away What the Child is Attached to as punishment" .....which are used in North America...... cause the child to not want to develop deep relationships with their parents knowing that the parents will use those things learned against them. The suggested methods all require focusing on maintaining the relationship and the child wanting to deepen the relationship.
cnielson01 6 months ago
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ILeaveMyLoveWithYou 1 year ago
Thank you, Thank you Dr Neufeld for posting these videos. They are very helpful and reinforcing.
zoneyzoo 3 years ago