Gay Cruising

A look into the codified system of Gay Cruising. Our VJ Ben Aylsworth looks into gay sex in public places.

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[FunkyMcJambo]

just clicked this to call you all homos

[imstepen]

I met my partner of 15+ years by introduction from my heterosexual brother.

Who "cruises" anyway? I think it's a more a breeder thing now.

[mimana2]

How f*cking sad is to be gay.  Having to do all that sh!t to get quick and pity sex makes gay men small.

[suddenlyitsobvious]

@Showinbulge

It's really amazing that you position yourself as a spokesperson for gays. WE, WE, WE.

What's the matter? Did your entire individuality get fucked out of you? Something PERSONAL in there? Didn't think so.

Good luck finding a relationship with an anus and a dick and whatever being is attached at the ends.

[suddenlyitsobvious]

@Showinbulge

Your intellectual level and the utter lack of depth and originality clearly define you as another casualty of the brainwash. That you also cruise is another matter and that you would think that your sexual incursions interest or shock me, or that I would have a problem with homosexuality or gay cruising for being a 'christian bigot', a 'repressed faggot' or something along those lines merely shows you're too thick, programmed and predictable to process my posts.

[suddenlyitsobvious]

@Showinbulge

'what you define as "today's indoctrinated gay" is really simply gay men that know how to pick up other men in public places like clubs, on the sidewalks, shopping, etc'

Uh no, Einstein, I was actually differentiating between the cruising part and the indoctrination part, the latter being quite apparent in your fake campy prose, namely in the constant emphasis on 'WE', in phrases heard THOUSANDS of times, such as: 'we've come a long way' and 'society's acceptance'.

[Showinbulge]

@suddenlyitsobvious Feel better Mary?

Actually darling, what you define as "today's indoctrinated gay" is really simply gay men that know how to pick up other men in public places like clubs, on the sidewalks, shopping, etc. We've come a long way baby, thanks to society's acceptance of us.

We simply don't need to camp out in public toilets and spend all day in the woods like you.

You're looking for dick...We're looking for relationships that come with dick.

[suddenlyitsobvious]

@Showinbulge

They were actually looking for something, some fun, excitement, experience, love perhaps, at least they were looking for something and NOT counting on authority to give it to them, since gays for decades were eminently aware of the depressing implications of authority and the dulling, deindividualizing vibes of mass-culture.

The cruising gay, as opposed to today's indoctrinated gay, has at least kept in touch with his individuality and is at least looking for something.

[suddenlyitsobvious]

@Showinbulge

...of brainwashing. They evolve in depressing controlled subcultures defined by alcohol and a mindset of sex/consumption and aren't forming any actual alternative, viable male bonds. They COMPLETELY depend on the system's propaganda and legalistic measures, taking over a socially engineered model of gayness that is stripped of ALL creative, interesting implications.

At least when guys were wildly cruising, they weren't as indoctrinated and scared of everything.

[suddenlyitsobvious]

@Showinbulge

'Move forward why don't you'

Forwards to WHAT? To some ridiculous farce of a guy marrying a guy and the both of them adopting some child from some collapsed country and spending their lives chanting 'gay is good' and advocating kids be taught in school homosexuality is the exact same thing as heterosexuality, that it's just a matter of taste -some liking chocolate and some vanilla?

Face it, society is constructing a model of gayness and most gays today are in reality victims..