Dan Savage on Going Down on a Women

Why are straight men so afraid of going down on women?

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• Dan Savage
• advice
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• oral
• men
• women

[NUMAIroom]

I love eating pussy.

Its one of my favorite things to do.

How could you not love it?

[fons666]

I love dan.

[YourLoveLetter]

@bugababe6969 You should just tell him you can't get turned on for sex otherwise. He will if he knows that is the only foreplay that will get you in the mood for sex, also don't give him oral either is an easy answer lol.

[yunikage]

@jewelbenn I've wondered that myself. It seems like common sense. If someone wants something you don't want to provide, they find someone else. If you want something they don't want to provide, you find someone else? Right? Nobody has an obligation to do things they don't like.

Either A. guys who aren't openly sub were offended by my characterization of head as submissive or B. the gender patrol finds m-dom/f-sub offensive on principle.

Who knows?

[jewelbenn]

@yunikage why did so many people vote this down?

[teufeldritch]

Depends on the woman.

[yomon18]

Hate the smell. Hate the taste. And if she isn't well trimmed, you're putting your face into a wet sponge of hair. Otherwise, I don't mind it.

[Shroomsterdam]

@NUMAIroom Amen.

[Raymo853]

Oral was not kink 40 years ago. Nor 400 nor 2000. Sorry you are wrong

[ender003]

@arachnophile01 No doubt.

[yunikage]

I don't do sex acts I don't enjoy. Giving head seems submissive and slightly degrading to me. Huge turn-off. Some people are into that. I'm not.

So yeah, I expect blowjobs and I don't intend to reciprocate. Not me being an asshole, just me being honest about what I like and what I'm willing to do. If you're not ok with that, you can always sleep with someone else. A surprising number of people seem to be ok with it.