No sweety. You are a reflexive liar. You want people to think you have married your babies father (which you crazy americans seem think is sooo important, yet few of you bother) You are ashamed that you are one of the millions of irresponsible females spitting out children without the emotional, financial and paternal supports required to raise a healthy happy, well adjusted child. Pleas don't expect honest people to listen to your rubbish and support it. You need to speak the truth!
@TheIconoclasst While I agree that their is a problem with jumping into things and having children WAY before they are ready, we weren't in nearly that situation. We were together for 3 years before I got pregnant. My son was born when I was 26 years old,which hardly makes it a case of "babies having babies." And when we split I was well enough financially to take care of my family. After spending some time in therapy, we have since gotten married. I am honest enough to admit....
... maybe the way I worded it was because I wasn't ready to give up on our relationship. If I was/am guilty of any "crazy American" way of thinking/acting it would be that I was afraid that if I put in the hard work, it wouldn't be worth it. No marriage is perfect, and a lot of people today seem to throw everything away at the first sign of trouble. We did, we regretted it, and we have worked through it.
Our whole situation is too complicated. When people ask you how you are they on't really want to know, they're just being nice. calling him that is just easier.
No sweety. You are a reflexive liar. You want people to think you have married your babies father (which you crazy americans seem think is sooo important, yet few of you bother) You are ashamed that you are one of the millions of irresponsible females spitting out children without the emotional, financial and paternal supports required to raise a healthy happy, well adjusted child. Pleas don't expect honest people to listen to your rubbish and support it. You need to speak the truth!
TheIconoclasst 1 year ago
@TheIconoclasst While I agree that their is a problem with jumping into things and having children WAY before they are ready, we weren't in nearly that situation. We were together for 3 years before I got pregnant. My son was born when I was 26 years old,which hardly makes it a case of "babies having babies." And when we split I was well enough financially to take care of my family. After spending some time in therapy, we have since gotten married. I am honest enough to admit....
jnifr 1 year ago
... maybe the way I worded it was because I wasn't ready to give up on our relationship. If I was/am guilty of any "crazy American" way of thinking/acting it would be that I was afraid that if I put in the hard work, it wouldn't be worth it. No marriage is perfect, and a lot of people today seem to throw everything away at the first sign of trouble. We did, we regretted it, and we have worked through it.
jnifr 1 year ago
That's cool.
Myself, I was in a situation where an ex Lady friend(as opposed to "gf"--I hate that)referred to her non custodial bio Father as "a-hole".
It's all her Mother ever called the guy, btw.
majesticmeteor 4 years ago
Our whole situation is too complicated. When people ask you how you are they on't really want to know, they're just being nice. calling him that is just easier.
jnifr 4 years ago