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I can't even imagine a world without love. Heaven knows there's enough evil in it. Love is the only thing that gives me hope. That's why, when the love of our life decides that they no longer want us in their life, it hurts like hell. I know. I've been there. I've suffered through more breakups than you can imagine. But today, I'm happily married with a wonderful daughter. It wasn't always easy and I had to learn a lot along the way. I'm going to share a few things with you today that I am sure will have you on your way to reconciliation with your ex.
The first thing you need to understand is that whatever went wrong, there is usually enough blame to go around. Nobody is perfect. However, the last thing you want to do, if you're going to get your ex back, is put the blame on them. You need to take responsibility for your part in this mess. Admit to what you did wrong. Lay all your cards out on the table. You'll absolutely take your ex by surprise because most people will expect you to start playing the blame game. Don't do it.
Next, you have to listen to the other person's side of it without lashing back. Whatever they have to say, take it in and be quiet. Let them have their say. When they're done, discuss what just went down. Do this calmly and rationally. Don't yell, don't scream, don't make excuses. Go over each of the points. If you feel that your ex is being unfair about some of the criticisms, let it go. The last thing you want to do is start a fight. That's not going to win your ex back.
Finally, you need to show your ex that you're willing to make things right and correct the things that are wrong in the relationship. Don't ask your ex for any commitments. Just make the offer. Put it out there on the table and let your ex make the decision. The initial reaction may be no. That's okay...don't push it. Accept it and let your ex know that if they change their mind, to give you a call and leave it at that. Trust me, when your ex sees how you handled yourself through this whole thing, it won't be more than a week before that phone rings and they ask to see you.
The key to all of this is staying calm and rational. Emotions only get in the way and when you've had a breakup, they usually only make things worse.
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i just slap her with my big boner, and then shes right back instantly!
loslosnimo023 5 months ago
@PoppeTheStar
no worris bro .
rudeboywaz 8 months ago
@rudeboywaz Thanks for caring mate :) I appreciate it deeply :) thank you
PoppeTheStar 8 months ago
@rudeboywaz Well i kinda know that it doesn't work cause its all up to her, not me. Well we were best fiends and then it turned into a relationship and then she broke up and everything is just so confusing. I just wished things were different but hey, even tho i, perhaps, cant have her i will still wish her the best and i'm wishing her to be happy and find the person she wish to be with. I would rather just be with her these 3 years than living 100 years without knowing her at all :/.
PoppeTheStar 8 months ago
@PoppeTheStar
this dos not work mate.. the best way is to rimmend her what shes missing.. mate.. are you still in concat with her ? ..
rudeboywaz 8 months ago
i need help, please!!! There is this girl and well she is the pearl in my life, the diamond who shine upon my heart. I love her and stronger than ever before. Where do i get the book? the links does not work. help me :(
PoppeTheStar 1 year ago
yeah ok thats all good. im talking with my ex and the onvos are nice and everything and she does miss me. she said that i want you to care and maybe one day ;) so how to work on this situation? were talking and we still love eachother but i need to do something??
adriang458 1 year ago
lol, ive thought about preying on the feeble for income before. then i thought again. your worse than peter popoff.
thejaydoh 2 years ago