How To Be INDEPENDENT

Ladies, remember that being independent begins with yourself. Being independent does not necessarily mean that you don't need people. You can be around people and share yourself in a way without dependency. I'm independent because I'm aligned thoughts and my feelings,thus, I have already established my purpose to pursue the best person I can be. You don't need goals to get through life, just be logical, reasonable and cautious of the world that revolves around you. For example, think of your life as a "government", you have to create certain standards to stabilize your domain and peace within yourself. Then you regulate this foundation by thinking with your mind and invade your head with positivity. However, you may not fully comprehend the analogy I am imposing, but once you have come to the realization that YOU are your own person, and everyone else around you is out to make ends meet, then you are already become independent. Independence won't always provide you strength, I have plenty of weaknesses, but it's up to you how you handle those weaknesses. My weakness are people. Though I am not a people person, I feel for them, I deep compassion when someone is need, I give my world to them. I don't try to fix their world, but I infect them with my positivity. Try it, it makes life easier and far more simple.

On the contrary, start with being emotionally independent, then you can progress to be financially, environmentally independent. Only think about what is BEST for YOU. Not others. They just read your book, they don't write it like you do. People who judge are not mean, they ARE the judgment that they mask within their negativity. Meaning, they can't do it for themselves, so preach their insecurity by pre-assuming the status of others.

Then, the NEEDS and WANTS begin to play like a broken record in your mind, therefore, it consumes you. This is called reasonable. You begin to start compartmentalizing the importance things for your survival.

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[ZebraGloss]

I loook up to youu! Your beautiful, helpful with advice, and making me more confident. I watch all of your videoss. And I even said that you inspired me on facebook in my info. YOU ARE MY ROLE MODEL, I thank you for always going into a girls mind, and helping get through the most.

[livingdeadgrl18]

I love listening to you talk about these things! You are so wise and mature for your age. I've always felt like that as well. It's part of the reason why I don't really socialize, I suppose. I can relate to so much of what you say that I actually teared up watching this video because I see a lot of myself in you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[SincGr4nt]

by not relying on other people and start to do things on your own, Iv been independent for years and tbh it's the best thing :)

[Thugylicious]

Thanks for motivating me being independent and not always take care of everyone else first and THEN of myself -.-

[BuvVlogging]

hahahhahahaha pause at 4:25 !!

[xxCristalAliceaxx]

You are so inspiring! Much love <3

[SceneChick211]

i really didnt get the point!?????

[PourprePurple]

Thank you ! ^_^

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[arsalanismyhero18]

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[emicijaSVL]

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