TWStuff - Can you lose your virginity too late? (27.05.09)

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[preput]

my take on this is:

if you have someone that you feel attracted to (purely physical or in a deeper sense) that is also interested, do it. it will probably be one of the best moments of your life.

don't do it because you of social pressure, or religion (which is crap anyway), just do it if you instinctively feel it is something that you want. chances are it will be a great experience.

[tepporocks]

Well, I'm 33 and have NO plans on losing my virginity. Both out of choice and not being attractive enough.

Also, making a woman pregnant is my greatest fear in life. I was adopted, so I suppose that might be why I feel child birth is unnatural. Well, it seems that way to me.

It's not hard to remain a virgin if you're ugly, but it IS hard to be surrounded by people who have sex all the time and expect you to do the same. If you're too ugly to have sex, you become an outcast. Great world, eh?

[brentbrownful]

@ChasityDouglas i agree, i lost my virginity to my high school sweetheart, but he cheated on me so i had to end it, but we had a strong bond until he showed his true colors, why didn't you two work out?

[ChasityDouglas]

Age doesnt seem to be the problem here. I think its more of an mental satablity, if your insecure about yourself from the beginning then thats sign for you NOT to have sex. Personally I had sex early in my teens it was with my ex bf of 4 years and even though we didnt work I have no hard feelings towards him at all i still have love for him and respect him as man. I was treated like a princess and knew i was loved dearly by him. I regret nothing and would probably do it again if i had the chance

[83RockaRolla]

[continued] I'm really afraid of getting older because the older I get the more afraid I become that if it should ever happen it might become a humiliating experience.

[83RockaRolla]

Well, I'm 28 and still a virgin - not because I don't want to and I don't believe in waiting for THE right one.

I can't explain what's the problem (therefore there are times when I'm really down and think I'm more ugly, stupid, etc. than everybody else).

The few guys who approached me were absolute scumbags, therefore I have to start talking to the guys I fancy (which is very hard for me as I'm quite shy and always get nervous as hell) and they always turn me down.

[The31YearOldVirgin]

@littleripper333

"Age is irrelevant"? Maybe so, when you're 21.

But I'd really like to hear your opinion about this in 2021...

[The31YearOldVirgin]

"Can losing your virginity later in life be as damaging as losing it when you're young?"

What a moronic question. Of course it can!

[littleripper333]

I feel that age is irrelevant and it depends on your personal maturity and your current situation. I am not a virgin at 22 because I want to wait but because I have not found someone I am attracted to who wants to be in a relationship with me as well. I want to have sex but I don't want to face consequences or responsibilities for someone who I am not that attracted to.

[tepporocks]

@preput Yes, but then those women are only after the stability that money can provide. And that's not very romantic!

I'm a pessimistic romantic, and I would never allow myself to be in such a shallow

relationship. Because, if money is the foundation of your family, then your kids

are going to be pretty messed up.

Fortunately, I'm neither rich or famous, and having a family is my worst nightmare, so I consider myself lucky.

What's hard is listening to people being shocked over my virginity.

[preput]

@tepporocks i'd suggest reading "sperm is from man, eggs are from women" by joe quirk. it's a light and fun read that explains a whole lot about human relations, with scientific arguments, but expressed in a very accessible (and quirky :) ) way.

[preput]

@tepporocks

petrucciani has 3 kids, with a non-little person (i don't know how to say this more politically correct, sorry). i doubt you are less attractive than him.

the thing about finding a good genetic match is true, but it weights less for females. they have a split agenda so to say. they are looking for good genes as well as resources (which status provides). i think you can easily find non-attractive males that are either rich or famous (or both) and have females swarming around them