Can a Relationship That Starts Out as an Affair Succeed?
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@kakliza Yeah they can go from crazy to normal to crazy- like turning a light switch on & off.
auntstacey123 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 AND yes! i STILL feel like puking every time he tries to go 'normal' e.g. talking to his friends / staff on the phone as if he was the most innocent of men : YUP, THINGS ARE DEFINITELY BACK TO NORMAL and i can't wait to finally move out so i won't get nauseous all the time.
It's really a pity. I really wanted to respect him - maybe i lost my temper, maybe i'm brash, but i really wanted to respect him. why'd he have to go and mess it all up?
kakliza 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 and then i sent him a message : "did i make you angry AGAIN by parking here somehow? i'm really sorry...my apologies?" --- heh heh just to see what he would say - in case he thought that only the OW is the only loving female alive. well, well, speak of the devil - here he comes now.
kakliza 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 well, at least things are back to normal. despite banged up knee, i still managed to drive (automatic) car to a large public park at dawn with kids & him in car - to attend kids' school activity. literally in dawn darkness - went round & round for a bit : we found the place. i parked in one empty parking bay, though he was telling me to go further up - that irritated him somewhat!!!!
kakliza 2 weeks ago
@kakliza Truthfully, I honestly dont know. I would be confused.
auntstacey123 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 and after he left for a bit, he came back - finished the tv prog - and then he left to have his dinner in the dining room (without a word) : kids were trying to help me to the bathroom etc (bless their little hearts!). i'm not sure why he suddenly had this flash of inspiration - talking to me like all's normal. what's up, do you think?
kakliza 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 a Q? last nite, he came up to me when i was in the den (laid up with a busted knee) and watched tv there for a bit. he asked me AGAIN about the internet services i use at home, suggesting changes in provider etc. the way he was talking - it seemed like he forgot i was moving out due to situation. TV documentary was on a project that his company lost due to a political intervention. he stayed a while, told me abt his frustration about the lost project. went off, and came back
kakliza 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 WHAT IS IT THAT SHE WANTS AND VALUES THAT YOU CAN TAKE AWAY FROM HER? YOUR HUSBAND. She wants to take your husband from you. In fact, her best case scenario is for you to lose control and to appear unattractive, unstable, and beaten. She needs for things at your house to be tense and heavy because this means that your husband will turn to her as a safe haven. Whether you save your marriage or not, don't let her beat you. "
kakliza 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 But, you know what? She can't keep this up forever. The longer the affair lasts, the more that reality is going to set in. She's going to start demanding more from your husband...Instead, conduct yourself with dignity and grace – two traits that she definitely doesn't have.
kakliza 2 weeks ago
@auntstacey123 ..." So, what does she have that you don't have? She doesn't live in the real world! She doesn't have to pick up your husband's dirty socks or make his meals. She likely doesn't demand a lot from your husband. She's all fun without any sacrifice. She doesn't have to worry about the bills or running the household. She can present herself as a fun diversion with no strings attached. "
kakliza 2 weeks ago