Top Ten Mistakes PUAs Make In Field

Dan talks about the top ten mistakes PUAs make in field and what to do about it.

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• miami
• dating
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• pua
• approach
• opening
• bar
• club
• pecking
• social
• creepy

[chazbeaver]

To all the haters in the house,

The reason you can tell these things work and he's telling the truth is because he was able to give a very charismatic 10 minute long instructional video. He doesn't 'um', he changes up his tone, he uses body language well, and smoothly moves through it all in one shot. Kinda like a pickup.

[MiamiDatingCoach]

@chazbeaver Really intelligent observation. I had to comment on that. I attribute it to ten years of acting training. Thanks for the positive feedback.

[AlexKrycek411]

Guys like Mystery, Neil Strauss, Adam Lyons, these guys are actually successful with regularity. And none of them are that good looking.

Guys who can really pull the girls tend to lean towards wanting to share that with other guys and show them the way. This comes across as arrogant sometimes, but it's actually a sign of their human kindness.

Your need to hate on others just proves your inadequacies, insecurities, and that you generally lack worth when judged by men OR women.

[MiamiDatingCoach]

I look at both. So should you man. You'll start looking for both when you've dated too many beautiful but crazy, stupid, dull, golddigging, manipulative, etc. women.

[JunmaiShu]

The best ones are usually unintentional. This girl was yapping about how she didn't like the way she looked, fishing for a compliment. I said that I thought she was pretty in "her own" way. She of course asked me to clarify, and I said "don't get me wrong, you're pretty to me, I can just see how a lot of guys wouldn't think you were.", later blaming it on people's priorities (tits, ass), and saying I wasn't all about that. Made her know I saw beauty in her, without making her feel beautiful.

[JunmaiShu]

The most common mistake is that guys think the goal is to insult. The goal is actually to compliment, but just to do it in a way that leaves their egos a bit unfulfilled, and perhaps confused as well. A classic: nice hair/nails, are they real? Tell them you enjoy talking to them, and think you could become good friends. This makes it look like you're a nice guy not just trying to get into their pants, while also making them think "what's wrong with me that he only wants to be my friend?"

[s6y9l]

Serial killers are not very loud. Good point. :-)

[DingoStylz]

I can totally relate to what he is saying, and I am a fail on all of these rules. Although this is primarily aimed at the club scene, I think the rules can be helpful in any situation really. I don't do clubs as i don't like the music and getting into fights, but I will definitely take this advice on board.

[highnine9]

when this first started I was like nerd by the ending I was like what a cool guy proof that he knows what hes talking about

[leopardsbasketball]

@brixendump Agreed eh, I know that he's confident that he knows what he's talking about, but why does every PUA or "player" insist on wearing THAT exact same shirt (or variations of it)?! If you want to make a video of mistakes that PUAs make in the field that are most common, then add the "I'm going to the club tonight" shirt to the list.

[brixendump]

wow u dress like a real PUA, but anyways gut explanationn!!!

[brixendump]

wow u dress like a real PUA

[Adagio1723]

@777Skeptic I am so guilty of doing number 8. BADLY.

[free2flow10784]

Dude this was one of the best, I repeat Best videos i've seen in regards to the club scene. I went out last week to the soul music spot for the first time in like 1 year...literally. I did some of the good things like saying hi to random people the high fives, without even knowing this stuff. Now I know some things to avoid that I sometimes do like wall flowering near the dancefloor.