How to create conversation

Dan the Miami Dating Coach teaches you how to create a conversation out of nothing. Learn how to improvise conversation using these techniques and exercises.

Again, sorry for the cold front wind blowing into the mic.

Category:

Howto & Style

Tags:

• conversations
• conversate
• how to have a conversation
• dating coach

[Simple5005]

This is really interesting stuff, thanks! I'm going to practice this stuff in my alone time and try it out in field. When you're doing the word association thing, how do you know what statements to actually say to the girl and what statements to keep to yourself because some are silly and too random?

[MiamiDatingCoach]

@Simple5005 Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Experience talking with girls will help you learn what works and what doesn't. If you notice saying a certain thing offends girls 6 or 7 times in a row, then stop doing it. Remember that many women will "reject" you arbitrarily no matter what you say. So just stick to cutting out things that have offended several people.

[Swording77]

I like the way you teach. You seem to be a good person =). For people, who have problems from going from one topic to an other, it is very useful to exercise by their own. Like you say, making statements all time and thinking of things about the statements, which lead you to other things. If you do this often, you are going to develop some new and more synapses. So when you are into field it is much easier to talk.

[JoelMatton]

On the topic of coming up with topics of conversation, one thing that's worked well for me is going for walks on dates. Just walk around town and comment on people and things that pass by. It may be a cliché, but if a person likes you then they won't need a bunch of "stuff" to enjoy your company, all they'll need is you. Plus if you find yourself liking each other, you'll have plenty of natural opportunities to put your arm around her, stroke her back, give her kisses on the cheek and stuff :)

[srbrand04]

yea this is my biggest problem...I always go to the same old boring questions "where are you from? you go to school? where do you work? bla bla bla?" which I hate because it really doesn't build much of a connection....

[dskiller]

nice i liked this

[frankgv123]

I would rather tease her on what she says ... when a tease is a little more personal it triggers her mind to try to keep ip with you...its how I role. Lol Dan you are doing a great job on your vids .

[Katyna780]

The wind was very naughty, it would be better in a more silent environment.