GloomBoomDoom a/k/a Inmendham, My FIRST Stick-Cam Experience...

A TRIGGER (Old Mind Maps )...The interaction I had with this individual, triggered the feelings of unworthiness I felt while being verbally bashed by my step-father, when I was a child. In the video I noticed I said I have never experienced this before...but what I meant, is that I had never experienced this experience before, in this way, on a forum such as Stick-Cam. I have experienced the feeling of hurt due to feeling unheard and misunderstood. I have experienced being verbally attacked by another, and I have been guilty of this behavior as well. I saw a side of myself in the individual who I had this experience with. Teachers/Students, we are.


After I made this video, I was made aware that an apology was expressed via video today. I very much did appreciate the gesture.

As of 8/5/11, Gary blocked me, why, no clue. Gary's actions speak louder than his words.

The only way to make sure people you agree with can speak is to support the rights of people you don't agree with.

- Eleanor Holmes Norton

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• inspirediam

[Wwechoes]

Hi, it was nice to come across your video. Thank you. And I know what you mean about your experience. Gary hates human beings and is a sociopathic sado-masochist who cannot deal with the real world "out there." So it is only natural that he lashes out to females, especially. I came within a few minutes of his home thinking I could "visit, and say hello".....and he screamed at me that I was not welcome. It shocked me somewhat, and I was hurt, but then I figured...."go figure"...and went on.

[inspirediam]

@Wwechoes Wow, you were actually in his area? Were you two on good terms at the time when he turned you away?

[Wwechoes]

@inspirediam Well, one is never really on "good terms" with Gary. He may love you one minute (usually for briefly agreeing with him), then the next minute he will despise you for not agreeing with him on a worldly subject. He not only despises the general population as a whole, but I think he has an "issue" with women. I am not sure if he was in the service, that may have something to do with things. I thought we were at least on speaking terms, but guess I was very wrong!! thanks!! Karen

[inspirediam]

@Wwechoes Wow...yea...he can def. take catch one off guard..as in..you think to yourself..where did that come from?

[Qntkka]

Well said, Inspirediam! I have been following InMendam's videos for the past two months. He seems to be very intelligent, but his thoughts are disjointed. He may have possible rage issues, but I don't know if he is physically violent. On one level, he is very talented and very entertaining, while on another level he is kind of sad and confused. I think he is in it for the fight. Even if you agreed with him on every issue, he would still fight you. Rock on! ;)

[Elvis1972MovieTour]

@CSTheApostate Your Absolutly right. He his a Coward.

[Elvis1972MovieTour]

@Wwechoes Gary is a Liar and a lunatic idiot. I am so sorry he did that to you. He has no life accept to lie and hurt people at there expense. Someday i hoe he will be banned from youtube forever. I like humans and try my best to have good conversations. if you came to my house i would not shun you away i would talk to you. Gary is failing at this rediculous game he is pulling,he is trash and deserves to be alone and ignored for the reat of his worthless life. Take care. Peace.

[WiseWeeabo]

I don't think we should end humanity right now, I think what's naturally going to happen is that we eventually become completely digital, which would solve a lot of problems.

[inspirediam]

@heloizyjhenifer I knew nothing of his philosophy at the time and still do not know enough within two weeks of researching, to speak on the topic with any authority. I am not sure if I will choose to do so in the future, but if I do, it will be on my turf,, of which I will welcome others to expand upon what I share and present new perspectives to consider. Thank you for sharing your perspective on this subject matter. :-)

[heloizyjhenifer]

@inspirediam I think you should really approach arguments like that with a mind totally emptied of emotions. Forget who you are, only talk reason/logic and do leave if your adversary is unfair by talking over you etc. Gary is not a bad person, but he went over his philosophy uncountably many times with virtually nobody presenting counter arguments other than "you're wrong because I don't like it" or "it doesn't feel right". Show a little empathy for Gary! xD