Where did the good men go?

One of the more commonly repeated opinion pieces rearing its ugly visage in the various public open sewers which constitute our mainstream media is the headline "where have all the good men gone".

There's a number of screamingly obvious answers to this, which despite the glaring, blatant nature of those answers, seem elusive to the empty headed animal food trough wipers bleating their repetition of where have all the good men gone. Just to get it out of the way, Im going state the obvious.

What happened to all the good men is the women asking that inane question. Women go through their lives surrounded by men they cant see, because these men by being kind, polite, helpful, friendly and non frightening and consequently don't trigger feminine instinctive attraction to assholes, psychopaths, criminals, and various unreconstructed cavemen. Asking why cant you find a decent guy while the decent guy is standing right next to you, or carrying your groceries, well, shit, do you need me to draw you a picture?

A more interesting answer to the question of where have all the good men gone is another question.

Just exactly how do we define good in this equation?

What is it that women want?

Well, it's a long list: but my admittedly incomplete understanding is that what women want is a creature of approximate man shape, broad shoulders, tall, well dressed, with a nice car, a high figure salary, good teeth and cool hair, and all the alpha characteristics to make him a conquerer and leader of men. Except he also needs to bow and scrape and be the selfless self sacrificing lapdog to his woman, except when he's supposed to be dominant, but not too dominant, and also read her mind, but only when hes supposed to, but remain confused and in need of feminine guidance at other times. And a great big cock.

I could go on, but I think you get the picture.
It should be fairly obvious that trying to conform to this list would be both exhausting and futile. Even switching around the criteria I've provided as examples, for other stupider criteria, some variation of a list like this is constantly implied in women's magazines, daytime talk shows, soap operas, romantic comedies, self help books, and everywhere else flattering women can earn somebody buck.

But this isn't even the problem. The problem, ladies, yes, you ladies asking where the all the good men went, the problem, or at least an important part of it is the combination of our society's increasing marginalization and criminalization of male identity, and your ongoing silence. Well, silence isn't quite right, women are now, and have been continuously vocal for the last half century, loudly and repeatedly making it abundantly clear that as men, we're worthless, we're rapists, we're your oppressors, we're violent, we're un-feeling -- ill tell you that one hurts, lets see, what else, that we're a bunch of retrograde, infantile, stupid, inferior, lesser humans. We, as stupid inferior men also notice that the inherent internal inconsistency in this public narrative does nothing to diminish the force and volume of the message.

But strangely, from the vast majority of the demographic comprising 65% of the electorate and spending 65% of disposable income world wide -- not much besides accusation, and to state it plainly, hatred.

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[Hitomiaka]

haha sounds like someone is bitter...

[johntheother]

@Hitomiaka Who's bitter? me? It is important to remember that passive acceptance of evil is not a virtue.

[davegate2000]

Where have all the good men gone?

Good men avoid bad women, so we're staying bachelors or finding foreign ladies.

[Hipcubbiesfan80]

@davegate2000 lol truth

[thesirenrayne]

I see guys being the same amount of picky with the women they choose to date but by different standards. I don't see the difference. Keep in mind that I have a short scrawny bf who is only getting 2 shifts a week at his job right now and I chose him over other guys because he makes me laugh.

[ultraverydeepfield]

6:00 you got it wrong there. It is not about you explaining to women why men behave as they behave. If you look at 4:40 start demanding the cancelation of the show, or at least a public excuse.

that is right. start demanding.

men do not care about this silly shit, because it is silly shit. but men should start demanding their rights. Call out politicians that say outrageus things against men. Repeat that sentence till they have to step down. Demand it, and people will follow you.

[ultraverydeepfield]

2:06 four feminists disagreed

[MsDatona]

@johntheother I love how people like 'Hitomiaka' use shaming tactics like that. I used to fall for those shaming tactics whenever I openly complain about the crisis of masculinity, but now when people use them on me I rip them to pieces the way you just did!!!!

[AJatethewaffles]

@Hitomiaka

haha BINGO

Anti male shaming tactic

Charge of Irascibility (Code Red)

"you're bitter"

Play along at home kids

[johntheother]

@RIMA142142 - you make declarative statements, and when challenged, pretend you don't understand. fuck off and don't return

[RIMA142142]

@MoneyIsSilver what the f do you want from me? did I spoke to you? did I insult you? did I insult anyone? I don't think I did. I'm sick of rudeness. respect me, I'll respect you.

[MoneyIsSilver]

@RIMA142142 then don't comment. Why talk when you don't even know what you're saying?