Tomorrows History Starts Today- By Debbie Vicari
As Debbie told me ,this was the most important song for her,
she said: " if people listen to this one,then they learn a lot about me,
cause this song is about MY life."
JR Shatzeline
2008/02/29
This song is autobiographical. I am updating this info today 10-25-2008 which is one day after the sixteen year anniversary of my sister's tragic murder. The thing is there is much aftermath after such an event and things happen. Good and bad and we all try to pull it together afterward. Meds are prescribed and many ways of trying to get through such an ordeal.. well.. I am sure many can imagine it isn't easy. But we do make it. However the aftermath isn't easy. But in the process pride ends up taking a back seat for sure, it has to. Otherwise we would hide from ourselves and never forgive ourselves. I made it through but this song tells a lot of the way I did it. I found solace in it and I hope others do too. I am "that girl over yonder" in the first verse. I am then the first person throughout the rest of the song. The babys being gone were my kids in the first verse as well. The empty silence was not having the sound of my children with me in my house at night which nearly tore me to pieces. The person that was crying in his beer was a friend at a karaoke club. A group of us met weekly. It was sort of our unofficial therapy group. Singing got me trhough for sure. Music was my therapy. It still is but I don't need it as much., This song was written as a result of what I needed to learn and what I did learn and I still turn to it to this day to remember what I learned. I hope it touches you. It grounds me still to this day. Because no matter what mistakes we have made, our histories do not define us unless we let them. It truly is our choice however I think we forget how much choice we have in this life. I hope this song reminds people of that choice. I hope people remember to take that choice and empower themselves and take action. It truly is that simple. Tomorrow's history starts TODAY. Decide what that is going to be now. We always have that choice. It is such a beautiful thing. Regardless of what our past holds however negative (Or positive for that matter) today we create tomorrow's history. And I mean regardless of how bad we THINK the past has been. Love can ALWAYS be today's choice for the future from here on out. I TRULY believe that and stick to that. Much love and hugs to all.
Please enjoy this song from my heart. And please enjoy those around you and most of all, enjoy yourself with all of your flaws and imperfections. That is what makes us so wonderful. Learning and growing is why we are here. Live learn love. Thank you so much for coming to my channel and sharing your time with me.
Sincerely,
Debbie Vicari
Lyrics:
Youre sittin all alone, Crying in your beer
Hidin in the dark dont want no one to see ya here
Your wife left youre lonely, youre takin all this on your own
But if youd just look up, youd find youre not alone
That girl over yonder, the one thats smilin ear to ear
Yeah shes laughin, but what you dont know is she smiles to cover fear
Come nights end she leaves here, all she can do to get to sleep
Her babys gone, and the silence it cuts too deep
CHORUS
Youre not alone, we learn to make our way
When thinkinbout the past theres just one thing Ive got to say
Tomorrows history it starts today
Life Aint been easy
struggled day to day
Had the best intentions but made mistakes along the way
Now I reminisce, I wonder who I was back then
Thank God I took the chance to start again
Seems were all so wrapped up in the way things might have been
Worrying about the future forgetting the moment were living in
Yesterday is over, tomorrow may not be
So live your life today then look youre sure to see
CHORUS
Youre not alone
We learn to make our way
When lookin at the past theres just one thing Ive got to say
Tomorrows history it starts today
BRIDGE
We all have our problems, but we learn to make it through
In life theres always questions, let the answers come to you
All we can do is cherish what weve had
Learn from our mistakes and make the best of good and bad
Our histories dont define us not unless we choose them to
So for those who care, heres all youve got to do
CHORUS
Get off your seat
You can find a way
Make you just who you want to be
Tomorrows History it starts today
(FINAL CHORUS)
Oh get off your seat
You can find a way
To make you just who you want to be Tomorrows History it starts TODAY
don't know why she isn't star - she had more voice and talent as much other "country singers" - it's a shame that she had to leave. but it might be that the lord himself wanted a high class singer at his side?
horstveit 1 year ago
@horstveit thank you very much for your nice comment !
I agree and I think she is a star cause she touched the hearts of so many people.
your visit here is greatly apreciated.
Best wishes
J.R. Shatzeline
DebbieVicari1 1 year ago
It's so sad that Debbie not is here anymore, she was a fantastic singer and had a really good voice, one of the best on You-Tube.
R.I.P. Debbie.
Hebbe
taxbenen 1 year ago
@taxbenen Hi Hebbe ,thank you very much for visiting Debbie`s memory channel !
I`m happy when people still enjoy her voice.
J.R.
DebbieVicari1 1 year ago
@taxbenen thank you very much for always visiting Debbie`s memory channel,Hebbe ! We`re glad you`re stopping in,-thank you for your nice comment !
Best wishes
J.R. Shatzeline
DebbieVicari1 1 year ago
Just now discoverd Debbie Vicari. Sorry to hear of her passing....she was incredibly talented.
onewomanandsomesongs 2 years ago
Thank you very much for stopping by, Debbie was an amazing talent. Colleen
DebbieVicari1 2 years ago