r u a ToP oR BoTtOm?

I hate this question.

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• or
• botttom

[Nateynate82]

I get annoyed, too. I also get annoyed when people think a bottom should be prissy and the top should be more manly.

[dannyboi111982]

I see the question as irrelevant to, striking up a friendship. If one is trying to hook up, and is only interested in one position, it becomes extremely relevant. Additionally, if one is looking for a relationship and is only comfortable in one role, it becomes a compatibility issue. No one wants to date for months to find out that they're not compatible, and this is an issue that can be addressed early. I only find the question offensive when it's the first thing to come out of someone's mouth.

[fenackerpan]

You are SOOOOOO right!

[adriand80]

i don't hate that question, but it surely makes me see the kind of person that they are. It's obvious that when they ask you that right away is because they want to know if they can have a relationship based on sex and not on a serious relationship.

[greedlusthate]

I'm whatever you want me to be! ;)

[RonN448]

I have wondered if being a top or bottom has a stereotype attached to it when it comes to a person's masculinity (or lack thereof). I've never been more than mildly offended by it. However, I don't like it when it's the first question "out of the box." And, I don't think you're blowing it out of proportion, at all. Thanks for making me think a little deeper on this because it's a very valid point. This is the first video of yours that I've seen; but, I'm going to check out more of them.

[1988fierogt]

i have really come to enjoy your videos bro,,,muah

[Eyulfable]

I don't mind the top or bottom question that much. What I do hate is when someone says, "So are you the guy or the girl in a relationship?" We're both f@#%ing guys!

[ElevatorLink]

If I was in your position I would've found it a little disrespectful, and I don't see you blowing this out of proportion in any way.

[tyty12345678910]

ask them y they asked it who knows.

[tyty12345678910]

i think its a question that theres just no right way to answer it either someone might or might not be asking it with the right intentions or someone else might or might not take it the wrong way off the bat. but for me its a question that needs to be asked because im a bottom and plan to stay that way why would i try to be with someone that they might wanna bottom one day, would it cause a problem if i dont want to top. this is the situation im trying to avoid altogether just if they ask you

[xXvolhvXx]

I'm neither a top nor a bottom, too, and I don't care about these particular labels, but I'm curious about the femme/butch label because I like mannish women. I'm a bisexual guy.