What about the Good Black Women?

They exist. But how easily are they identifiable. And how available do they make themselves?

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• interracial
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[nubiangoddess240]

If you aren't willing to take the time out to look for that good black woman then what do you want? Isn't that just a way of settling for whatever is ou here? If there are what you find acceptable black women where you are then make the effort, move some place else so you can find her. Dont sit there and wine and preach about it if you dont do anything about it.

[pinkkelephant]

can the same be said for black women who swear up and down that there are no educated black men out there?

[nomorewords1977]

Dude Southern California is a whole other beast. lol I live in California but southern cal is very plastic. lol People down there are trying to be actors or be seen. Travel to some other states. There isn't an abundance of black culture in california and you don't get much variety in black ppl out here.

[pinkkelephant]

i know. it sucks that i desire to live because i was born and raised in southern cali. l like everything about it except the black community. blacks out here are more concerned with what you have instead of what ya know.

[imsatindoll]

when I see a black woman complaining about singleness most of the time she is either a) antisocial b)stuckup c)overly picky d)dont take care of her appearance e)confrontational f)rude g)crazy h)insecure and many more things thats considered negative

[logician3]

Yeah, you really need to write a book.

[LyricalMasterMind1]

Dis real!

[wakeen01]

its funny what u said at 3:52....i met a bw who told me she hasn't been n a committed relationship n 5 years....thank god i have ears and listening skills...my question too her was so u haven't had sex in 5 years? she did not want to answer....wow, lmao...

[MrPrettyBoyChina]

This video is so on point.!!!! I was thinking the same thing. I told my friends similiar words.

[appleifc]

black women should deal with and marry other men than black men. black men have turned their backs on black women. consider the " food chain" white man all other man have it above black men generally speaking so for black women you WILL have a better standard of life with a man that is not black again this is just a general observation as general as there are only 3 or 4 off of 100 quality black women 2:20 to 2:30 right?! only thing is white man being at the top of the food chain there are .!

[OneSummerSky]

As a matter of fact, why on earth would an intelligent white women start a relationship with a black dude that looks down upon black women, especially given the fact that the children that would come out of such an interracial relationship will also be of colour! So a black father that looks up to his white wife but looks down upon their daughter of colour. How narrow-minded can one be?!

[OneSummerSky]

1) Wow a new sub-species has been created: the Good Black Woman. PATHETIC.

2) Just remember that your future biracial daughter (of colour!) will grow up with a father that explicitly looks down upon women of colour. Personally, I wouldnt want my daughter to grow up with a world-vision like that.

3) Your last sentence is rubbish. Dont project your frustration over the rejection by white women unto black women! Sorry man, that the (white) ladies arent feeling you.

[stand4truth07]

I guess my question to you would be what do you consider to be a "good" black woman?

[NeophyteProselyte]

What's a good man or woman? Do anybody know? What SOME consider good, others might consider responsible.

What SOME might consider bad, others might consider traumatized.

Nobody knows what a good man or woman is especially if you have to tell everybody 'YOU ARE A GOOD MAN OR WOMAN'.

99.99% of decent people do not have to tell others that they are good: SOMEBODY ELSE will do that for them; otherwise, that classic line "I'm a good person" will send nigletoids running.

Great vid. Peace.

[EmpressNimra]

You've made some excellent points. Good bm and bw pass each other up in public or elsewhere and don't realize it. It would be a good idea to bring bm/bw like you and your friends to the surface. Create an afterwork mixer or get together twice month. Mixers help ppl meet in here in Chicago and other big cites. A lot a good ppl are shy too. They don't go out much.