Brent Smith - I'd love to take u on a bike ride, blah, blah, blah...

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Here's a recent Forum post from a new guy
who just joined, followed by my video answer:

hey guys,

I'm new on here and have been trying to get
caught up. I'm looking forward to getting
to know you all better and share some good
times. Just a quick backstory on me: I was
ok with girls through college, but it was
mostly due to the fact that Im ok looking and
was a popular and successful athlete. I
never really had to try before, and my only
success would occur when girls would pursue
me. Post college without a little popul arity
and recognition from sports, I thought I had
to start to try, and as you likely have all
experienced, the harder we try the worse we
do. If I look back on my most enjoyable
nights post college, it was when I didn't
really care about anything other than having
fun. Without really knowing what I was doing,
I would accidentally become the "mayor,"
and it would typically end well. These few
nights were total accidents and I'd love to
be able to create them on a more consistent
basis thats what Im hoping to learn through
this experience.




On to my Two questions:

So this past weekend was my five year reunion
and I ended up hooking up with a girl that I
always was interested in in college, but
wasn't able to because of gf's (wish I
could of rethought having a college gf).
Again, I have to give my success to simp ly
looking to have a good time, I didn't pursue
this girl at all and she put in all the hard
work. She is randomly coming out to visit
San Francisco for a wedding this week and I
was hoping to catch up with her again.




On Tuesday I sent her a quick FB message:

"Hey Mary,

It was so much fun seeing you at the reunion.
I'm excited you are thinking about moving to
SF. I imagine you are going to be really busy
with all the wedding stuff, but if you have
some free time i'd love to take you on a
bike ride or go on a hike.




Hope your are doing well"

I feel like I already failed! Can you guys
rip this apart for me? Did I already pursue
too much? Should I have not said anything?
How do you reach out without pursuing? What
would you guys have written if anything?

Part two:

How long should the affirmations be and are
they always the same. I use to do these in
sports but never thought they could transfer
to social interactions. Im really excited to
start trying them out. Thanks for all your
help and look forward to getting to know you
all better.

Anthony

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TTYL,

Brent

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[s10fisto01]

hey i mean brent, what if I FEEL like doing something other than hooking up?

[askbrentsmith]

@s10fisto01 Like What? Give me an example. Thanks!

[WhatsHappening783402]

How long will your Ultimate Lifestyle Transformation program price ($497) last? I get paid till 2 weeks from now.

[askbrentsmith]

@WhatsHappening783402 Hit me up when you get paid and we'll work it out.

[MrTofur99]

@Naos83 that's matrix talk. Every woman is just going to hook up, especially one's that are married or in relationships. Believe it. If your the right kind of guy all the women you hook up with want nothing more than to get you in a relationship, so that's all taken care of. Stop resisting and just BELIEVE!!!! lol

[surangasa]

Hey Brent, I have to say that when I thought that women should approach me they did approach me more! You Rock!

[Naos83]

This guy is great for hooking up I agree completely. But starting a relationship is different and not every girl is just going to hook up.

[19coyote80]

@s10fisto01 Just say i'm going on a bike ride, your free to join me. If you are going on a bike ride for the purpose of going on bike ride and not simply to try and get the girl then I do'nt see the problem with just asking her if she would like to tag along.

[s10fisto01]

@askbrentsmith like for an example, i just want to go on the bike ride instead of hooking up. Say the girl is a little on the prudish side or i just dont feel like hooking up.

[ROZEROxy]

I believe that you are caring about him caring about her and because of that he will listen to himself. It works both ways haha! Btw man, you have great view on relationships.