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I think that a constantly defensive mindset goes along with having insecurities...
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Glamazini. Thnx 4 updating settings & enjoyed othr vid as well. U rock!
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AWESOME!!!
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That was some serious word right there. Thanks for it.
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Good point! Looking forward to the next "Free Therapy" video!
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I will be looking forward to the repent/sorry therapy video!! I really "got" what you were saying about defensiveness....I have been that person for years, and the light went "on" when you were explaining it. After I watched this yesterday, I put it to use and did not plead my cases. did not look at my reasoning as a case either! it was uncomfortable but empowering at the same time. thank you so much for this video.
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Reminds me of the study we're doing in our women's ministry right now on the book and video, The Bait of Satan, by John Bevere. Defensiveness and offensiveness are not godly traits. It's good to talk about it, because so many of us are unaware that we are easily offended (which precedes our defense responses). Good video.
shonesters 3 months ago
@shonesters :: Girl yes, getting "offended" stems from a root of pride IMO...don't get me started. Sometimes you have to check the root of an emotion and pull that thing up and out!
glamazini 3 months ago
Glamzini. Sorry off topic. Tried viewing vid 144. (btw-you r awesome 4 sharing). Vid 144 not avail on mobile. Currently no access to puter. Any suggestions?
2Persistent2 3 months ago
@2Persistent2 :: I just changed it.
glamazini 3 months ago
I have done the same thing when a person passed me and spoke. I don't think giving an explanation is defensive. I stated "Oh, I didn't hear you, I was concentrating so hard on something". But who cares? I did not feel threatened...lol. It was a very small part of my day (seconds). It would see it as petty for someone to feel frustrated or bothered by my explanation or actions. Good topic!
babyshuf2 3 months ago
@babyshuf2 :: Yeah my example was strange, but in that instance the person said WAY MORE than just "oh I didn't hear you' ... then after the rattling on I said "uh, ok, good morning" and they did it again! I couldn't believe it. Why would you explain yourself for 3-5 minutes TWICE when all you had to say was "good morning". I actually said afterward "uh ... ok ... are you gonna say good morning or not?" LOL!
glamazini 3 months ago