For my children I would have long ago left; they'll grow thinking the level of dysfunction is acceptable. The man has no love and betterment to give her; can't understand why she's looking for it within him at all.
Why is she trying to work things out if she knows all of this about him? I know she is not perfect in her part in this as well. Yet, why would she want all that abuse {physical or emotional} around her kids...{on both ends}. I think he has a good point, they need their space, they need to find themselves as INDIVIDUALS first. Those kids need to know that they dont have to deal with ANY type of abuse from ANYONE..male or female.
Don't know her and don't know him. But I think it started with him having dreams and her not having any. They weren't going in the same direction in life and it causes tension. Both of them probably feel dragged down by the other.
....what's she looking for from him....he doesn't have it 2 give....you have 2 go to GOD to fill the emptiness, loneliness, low self esteem, fulfillment, self love etc.
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niccablue 5 months ago
For my children I would have long ago left; they'll grow thinking the level of dysfunction is acceptable. The man has no love and betterment to give her; can't understand why she's looking for it within him at all.
intjurban 6 months ago
@JoeAllenIsMusic My initial response as well; he probably resents her and that has turned to bitterness.
intjurban 6 months ago
Why is she trying to work things out if she knows all of this about him? I know she is not perfect in her part in this as well. Yet, why would she want all that abuse {physical or emotional} around her kids...{on both ends}. I think he has a good point, they need their space, they need to find themselves as INDIVIDUALS first. Those kids need to know that they dont have to deal with ANY type of abuse from ANYONE..male or female.
MyLifesPromise 6 months ago
She is not perfect. You are only getting half of the story. She sounds abusive as well. This couple needs counseling. This is common.
alansjf33 6 months ago
I love you both. Man, keep doing what you are doing.
wllstaylor 6 months ago
Don't know her and don't know him. But I think it started with him having dreams and her not having any. They weren't going in the same direction in life and it causes tension. Both of them probably feel dragged down by the other.
JoeAllenIsMusic 6 months ago 2
....what's she looking for from him....he doesn't have it 2 give....you have 2 go to GOD to fill the emptiness, loneliness, low self esteem, fulfillment, self love etc.
NappyNaturally 6 months ago 2