For Women Only: Why Men Don't Commit

Kara Oh talks to women about why men don't commit and what you can do about it.

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[OniNoFro]

In North America:

Over 50% of all marriages end in divorce. That is the odds of flipping a coin.

Over 70% of all divorces are initiated by women.

In an enivornment where divorce/family courts are predisposed to siding with women, in terms of life and risk management, this is a huge risk for men at any given juncture.

Men aren't afraid of commitment. We initiate over 80% of all contact/relationships/actions with women. We are afraid of being systematically and legally destroyed.

[ManSpeakOut]

So basically women, men like to be financially stable, and statistics don't lie. There is a 50% chance the marriage will end and leaving him in financial ruin. Its like basically flipping a coin, "heads, the marriage will be good" tails, we will divorce and I end in financial ruin" thats the kind of odds that fear men from commitment.

So not only do men want to get the point they are financially stable, they also want to remain that way, even if it costs them a loving relationship.

[silverhol]

I had this very thing happen to me by the guy saying that he had to get his finances in order and I thought it was an excuse to get rid of me. Then I seen postings on fb and pictures his ex had taken with him and it made me really think he was making excuses. This hurt me and I really hope you can give me some advice. :(

[lawshorizon]

A guy doesn’t like to be rushed to commit no more than a woman likes to be rushed into bed. He wants to know that things are, and she is, stable. (He’s likely learned from experience.)

[mikekazik1]

This video lacks many important details. A HUGE reason why men do not want to commit is that they disagree with the legalities of the marriage contract. As is exists today in the US, marriage is heavily biased against men, because it allows women to take most of their assets in a divorce.

[2PitifullStalkers]

I need this information badly.

[cdw100]

sex differences-why men wont commit

this is on youtube, watch and learn

[MrHangbush]

Damn who told her all our secretes????? Talk about hitting the nail on the head! I'm blown away at how she can get the male mind! its almost creepy, or it's just the fact I've never heard a woman make so much sense without emotions getting in the way of making sense...lol (kidding.....kind of).

[shatdog1]

I believe you are incorrect. Men do not commit because marriage laws in this country greatly favor women when it comes to custody and child support AND: Men do not trust women these days; rightly so, that she won't abandon him once the children are born. This happens all the time even though it is the man who is driven to actually do the filing for divorce.

[DaveXBTube]

@OniNoFro Not only North America but basically the entire Western world. Men should never commit without a very compelling reason to do so. Women if you don't like it, you are going to have to get the laws overhauled so that you share the risks equally.

[Nelson5011]

She gives decent advice. When she says NEXT! guys can now motivate to meet new girls. Everyone wins.